I been in the act of catching my bf in a time when hed be coming or watching porn without me knowing.And a time that we had an argument and hed come home from downtown the next night saying he went to a porno booth and had spent 28 mins watching porn and said he didnt have nowhere to go.Im glad my bf was honest at the time,but i hate getting hurt.We both think about counselling,but i always end up not going out of guilt that it might all be my fault.I talk to people about my concern's and issue's because im to ashamed to tell him how i feel.He just ignore's me and isnt interested sometime's.Could it be my depression taking hold of my life?and this goes out to guy's.Is it normal for a man to be with you in a shopping mall and hed look at a girl and whistle and say dayumm and starre at her *** just to make there gf jealous?Im not to sure.I just think he's trying to make me look like a fool and get all angry about it.Any suggestions and opinion's please feel free to post.Thank you.
2006-09-21 20:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Smell his dirty drawers when he come home or he runs to the shower after coming home. Those are sure signs. That and woman's perfume, lack of sex, and stupid excuses for where he's been.
By the way what you describing is an "addiction." When people are addicted to porn they don't care about their partner's feelings. If he is fixated on porn so much he has to go out and visit a porn booth. He has a problem. You need to get him in counseling quick before he furthers his obsession and cheats on you if he hasn't already. Sex addiction is very serious.
2006-09-21 20:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a rude and immature person with a porn addiction..which almost always leads to cheating...he has very little concern for your feelings either...I would dump the lout quickly and tell him you want no part of the porno thing..to me, When a guy is watching other women nude...it is the same as cheating..i know a lot of people don't see it like that ...but it is disgusting and rude habit.
2006-09-21 20:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really fishy about this guy,i suggest u to arrange a meeting with u r boy friend and discuss the problem and solution for this. if he is reluctant to change ,i suggest u better leave him because there is guarantee that he will be responsible after u r marriage (think what happens if he does this after marriage ) bye sister i hope the answer might not be good because this is what i do (but i am not u )
2006-09-21 21:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by arun k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the same time as he with out word has events that he in no way had to do before...at the same time as he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude in direction of you is replacing, if he tells you he "merely desires some ME time" in case you stay jointly a number of those are signs and warning signs too... a million. decrease desire to be with you sexually. 2. with out word tries new sexual positions. 3. operating late more advantageous in many circumstances. 4. Mysterious telephone calls. 5. receives indignant once you look on the cellular telephone, pager, or workstation. Is secretive of such. 6. smell of body spray on their outfits. 7. Takes a bath once he comes domicile. 8. you come across hairs or different products on his body or in his possessions. 9. starts off taking more advantageous care such as his visual attraction. 10. Accuses you of dishonest. 11. he ameliorations his time-honored recurring with out reason or reason.
2016-11-23 14:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by mcnear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you don't go to a counselor. If you are in the wrong, wouldn't you want to know, know why, and know what to do about it?
But, if you think your boyfriend is cheating on you, he probably is, (unless you are a real sick-o).
You need to go to a counselor. Communication is one of the keys to a good relationship.
c
2006-09-21 21:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably all your fault.
So many women are lame and uptight and sour.
You should read some of the answers some of these women post, like they are bitter and mad at the world.
You are probably putting way too much pressure on him.
Men like women who are supportive, not annoying and demanding and overly emotional all the damn time.
2006-09-21 21:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by bonicua 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He aint cheating on you, he probly wants some sex out of you. he wants you to get jealous sooo u can have sex with him and so u can be only his
2006-09-21 20:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Prince 666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont ned to know
if u still love him continue
otherwise dump him
2006-09-21 21:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by soumyaxyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for counselling purposes.. U can try http://www.personalcounsellor.com .. try giving it a visit.
2006-09-21 21:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by vivek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still having sex on a regular basis then he probably isn't.
2006-09-21 21:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by my_mas0n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋