2006-09-21 20:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by k_C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you split amicably and are still on good terms be happy for them. It may be hard but it is the best way to deal with it.
2006-09-21 20:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen to me and I ended up not being friends with either one after that. It was hard because I always felt like she stole him from me and eventhough I tried to stay friends with my friend I could not do it because it hurt too much. If she was truely your friend she would not have started dating your ex. But if you do not mind that they are dating then be happy that they are happy .But something tells me you are not happy with the so just remember why he is your ex and know that people do not always change and know that your friend might need your friendship someday, but if it makes you uncomfortable tell your friend that when you hang out you would rather it just be you and her and that you do not feel comfotable with him around but you do not want to loose her friendship. What ever you do do not make her choose you over him because she will choose him and you will be hurt
2006-09-21 20:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy FIEND is very apt!
anyways, i will be wondering if my friend actually cares about my feelings? The ex, heck, cos I already know he's a jerk. But I'd be disappointed in my friend's lack of respect for a so-called friend.
I'd prob ignore them cos no point asking any questions or demanding any explanation. Yup, strike them out of my life forever...
2006-09-21 20:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who the ex-boyfriend is, if it's the guy I don't have feelings for, I have no reaction at all. But if it's the guy I have feelings for, uh-oh, there's my reaction -- I'd be pissed off, upset, hurt, all those mixed emotions and wonder how a friend could do this to me. I would wonder about why he could do this to me, too.
2006-09-21 20:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by MICKEY MOUSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thought...3some baby! After I get that notion out of my head, I really wouldn't care but know that they will be talking about you in the most intimate way...at least I hope so. I wouldn't mind having two dudes braggin over my loving!
2006-09-21 20:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking forward to seeing the answers to this question.
In my book, if HE dumped YOU, then your friend shouldn't be dating him. That's not being nice to you.
But if YOU dumped HIM, then you don't want him any more, do you? He's not yours any more, so you have no claim on him. So you have no right to have any opinions on who he dates next. If it happens to be your friend, that's her business, not yours.
However, I know that most people get angry about it, and it's broken up friendships. Can't understand it myself.
2006-09-21 20:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost every boyf i had, one of ma besties went out wit him once we broke up.
even tho he hurt me in some way, i couldnt get ova the fact it hppnd. EVERY TIME!
but i eventually got ova it. its just break up blues. you feel lyk u still lyk him, but it just ur subconcious mind not catchin up, and slowin down ur concious mind.
sux!!!!!
2006-09-21 20:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be kinda mad if he was my boyfriend for years and she was my good friend but if he was my boyfriend for like two weeks in the sixth grade and shes started dating him now it wouldnt even matter... otherwise i would feel hurt like, 'so did she like him while i was w. him?'
2006-09-21 20:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Heat seeking missile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish good lack.
2006-09-21 20:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just react normal.
2006-09-21 20:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋