A female is probably better than a male. A small kitten will provoke less agression than another adult cat, as well. Make sure your adult cat has his own private space tho, so he can get away from the little ball of energy when he needs to, and give him some extra attention in the first few weeks so he knows he's still "top cat." Don't be surprised if he bats the little kitty a bit just at first, he will see it as an invasion of his territory until he sees that she's just a baby and no threat to him.
They'll eventually make friends and keep each other company while you're at work.
2006-09-21 20:36:52
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answered by anna 7
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At 4 your cat is still young enough that a kitten isn't going to be that much of a drama for him to get along with as long as you keep the kitten in the bathroom or something for a while & let them slowly sniff each other under the door for a couple of weeks & small times spent supervised together until there's no hissing, swatting or growling. Make sure you give the first cat so much love, show him that the new addition to the family is the best thing that could have happened to *him* & that will help. Good luck :)
2006-09-22 09:04:13
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answered by shirazzza 3
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The only way you will really know is to get the kitten. Some cats are fine with sharing their servants (humans) and others hate it. Cats are solitary animals really, so you dont really have to get one to keep him company (LOL)
As for same sex or different, it really doesnt matter, seeing he has been desexed.
You will have to have a separate area (including litter tray) for the kitten to start with so that it doesn't become overwhelmed with a big house. Also to give the adult a some kitten free time.
Do not be concerned if there is growling, spitting, and clouting - as long as there is no bloodshed or fur flying all will be well. They will work it out.
2006-09-22 03:48:31
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answered by Feline Female 4
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I think it's great you are getting another cat. I always think they need another cat just like them to relate to. At first your cat will be really upset and will growl and hiss at the kitten. It will take a few weeks for him to finally accept the kitten. They they will probably start playing together and sleeping together. They will become friends. I don't think it really matters what sex you get if your cat is fixed. I have introduced may kittens to cats I already have and it's hard for the first few weeks and then it all works out in the end. Just be patient.
2006-09-22 08:22:06
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answered by Turtle 7
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it doesnt really matter wether u get a female or male. and cats dont need a playmate for wen ur not home, they like sleeping wile ur gone.lol, and there is no way to tell if they'll get along or not. chances r that wen u first introduce them, the male will hate the baby, just make sure u let ur older cat kno that he isnt being replaced. and always be with them wen u let them be with eachother at first so u can stop any fighting that may occur, and i had a female an got a baby boy kitten and after awile, they did fine together. also once ur male has been nuetered he CANT spray. but he'll still claim territory. and make sure u spay ur female if thats wat u get. good luk!!!
2006-09-22 03:52:40
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answered by hellbound-angell 1
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multiple cats tend to be more social, less nervous and less destructive.
the gender shouldn't matter much but make sure you get the kitten fixed as soon as the vet says it is ok. that will prevent spraying and marking.
many cats will play the big sibling to a kitten.
make sure when you bring home the new kitten to pay extra attention to the elder cat so there is no jealousy.
you can't own a cat, as far as they are concerned, they own you.
good luck.
2006-09-22 04:29:35
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answered by dammage 2
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cats are solitary animals unlike dogs. they do not need companionship.
If you feel you must get a kitten, be prepared for your adult cat to be mean to it.
The older cat will be very defensive and territorial but will eventually tolerate the new cat when the 'pecking order' is established.
Treat the adult cat as your favorite, feed him first, pet him first and dont ignore him (he thinks hes the leader of your pride).
Be sure both cats are neutered and there shouldnt be any problems in that area.
Good luck!
2006-09-22 03:46:33
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answered by ? 6
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Females are the dominant ones in the cat family. If you get a female she will rule the house. Just because your male cat is fixed does not mean he cannot still spray and mark his territory.
2006-09-22 03:47:58
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answered by totoro 1
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well at 1st any animal can feel threatened by a new animal in the house...but your cat will get use to it. has your cat ever been around other cats. be sure to watch your cat...so the kitten doesn't get hurt....but things should cool down once he's used to her
2006-09-22 03:38:36
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answered by feline 2
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2006-09-22 03:40:47
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answered by Anonymous
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