2006-09-21 20:22:58 · 19 answers · asked by Eata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Force you??? To do what????
2006-09-21 20:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some way your are a victim of rape when this occurs. But it's a difficult predicament to be in. A man cannot force you to say yes unless you have no boundaries and let him talk you into it. So it is more like manipulation. If I were you (or the person you are talking about) I would seek some help from a psychologist as to why you feel like you have to do what makes someone else happy and sacrifice yourself in doing so. You need to have boundaries as well as everyone else in the world. If your boyfriend had boundaries he would respect you saying no and if you had boundaries you wouldn't care what he thought about you saying no and just stick to your guns on it. The fact is, if you are uncomfortable with something you don't have to do it and people need to respect that; they have no choice if you are firm about it. Take care of yourself and good luck.
2006-09-22 03:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to thine owe self be true
Have character and core values and you will walk away from this idiot who only wants to have a warm place to put it.
Once you enter that territory you cannot go back just like you can't unring the bell.
The territory is reserved by holy covenant of marriage and not for kids to play with. Why risk disease, dignity and the life of another person for someone to use you for his jollies?
I do hope you will consider the consequences of your actions.
Life takes place in our bodies and that is a sacred duty to protect and not view it as a plaything.
So "when a guy forces you to say 'yes' - YOU say NO!
Another thing - Don't put yourself in a position where that question can be asked.
The Diva,Darling!
2006-09-22 03:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by divadawling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. Do not let any male rule your life of force you to do anything.
If so...only once. Make that the first and last time.
Step away from him and don't look back. His actions are a preview as to what he is about. Is that what you want? Is that what you deserve?
2006-09-22 03:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get far away.don't sound like he has any respect for you.if he don't now he never will,and your life will be a living hell.if hes forcing you to say yes to sex,and you don't want to your with the wrong person.don't you think you deserve better?don't be like the song ( i cant walk out ).you should before you get hurt.
2006-09-22 03:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by starrman712 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can force you to do anything. You make your own decisions and if he happens to force you to do something you have no control over call the cops and have his @ss arrested.
2006-09-22 03:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is forcing you for sex then you better break up now because as soon as it is over he will leave for ever . sex changes things he will never be the same guy after it is over.
2006-09-22 03:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by askforanything 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say NO!!! If he loves you, he will not force you!!
2006-09-22 04:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by No-one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can from him . No women likes to be forced to do anything and no women should be foreced to do anything or say anything she does not want to
2006-09-22 03:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by melthule 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Bite his tongue.
2) Knee him in the balls.
3) Stick your thumbs in his eyesockets.
4) Go home and pleasure yourself to get him off your mind.
2006-09-22 03:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋