she told me that she would only accept me as one of her lovers, as she already has three. If this is the only way we can be together I have to accept it too right?
2006-09-21 20:21:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mat, your out of your fukking rocker. Dump this **** and go see a shrink immediately. We can't give you the help you need to deal with obvious deep seated issues as to why you would seek out a woman who not only is abusive, but despicable in every way. Please seek help. She's stealing your money and your life, and your letting it happen. Why?????????
2006-09-21 20:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really love a girl that does not only want you? This girl is not the one for you. I do not understand why some women do not respect themselves or others.
She obviously has NO RESPECT for you! Why would you want a relationship where your feelings will only be trampled on?
Perhaps, you really just enjoy the sex. What you should do is eliminate her from your life. If this is the only way you can be together you should NOT accept itunless you'd like to contract a few STD's and possibly HIV.
2006-09-22 03:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by bella_estrella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u have any respect 4 yourself or are u desperate2 be loved by anyone.2 have a gf means 1 on 1.not 3 or 4 on 1.there is a woman out there 4 u and u must feel that u r better than this.love is better than lust and u can't let this woman take advantage of u.stand tall and move on.
2006-09-22 03:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may love her...but it sounds like you need to find a girl who truly DESERVES YOU...because no matter what the lover situation will never be fulfilling and you will always want what this girl doesn't really want to give right now. Good luck you sound like a nice guy--JammieGirl
2006-09-22 03:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by jaded_illusions78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that behaviour isn't acceptable, but No one has the right to judge her immediately.Say "yes" but with a purpose. You have to know her that well and try to discover what makes her have that kind of personality. Try to understand and help her recover. Nobody would act bitchy not unless someone has provoked her to be one.. Sacrifice for her..
2006-09-22 03:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u really love hervery muh so u accepted her in neway.but u should think once more about what u r doing.she dosen't love u truely so she is giving u a position among three.but u should grow some self-respect.u should make her to love u as only one or u should leave her.
2006-09-22 04:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WITH THIS GIRL SHE IS NOT WORTH IT YOU DON'T NEED A GIRL THAT WANTS TO BE EVERY GUYS GIRLFRIEND THAT IS NASTY THAT SHOWS YOU THAT YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY WITH SOMEONE LIKE HER TYPE JUST MOVE ON THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA THAT YOU CAN FIND JUST LOOK GOOD AND LET TIME TAKE ITS COARSE GOOD LUCK AND DON'T STRESS AND TAKE YOUR TIME THERE WILL BE SOMEONE.LET HER HAVE AS MANY LOVERS AS SHE CAN FIND BECAUSE SHE IS HURTING HER OWN SELF
2006-09-22 03:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by blacksnow0909 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude,u r choice for girl friend is hopeless but i can understand it ,when it comes to girl .it happens that way so i would think is if u r self sufficient choose a good girl friend who can be a good wife and good mother for u r children,if u r not self sufficient then be one .
this is my opinion and it really doesn't matter for u because this is what i do if i am in u r place (but i am not in u r place) so bye friend i hope a good future is waiting for u.
2006-09-22 03:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by arun k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, ur a glutton for punishment ! Apparently she`s the only girl u ever had, if ur willing to settle for being # 4. I think ur in lust not love. Ever hear the word AIDS ?
2006-09-22 03:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by flamingo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude get a real girl. The money your making is going to her and shes spending it on her other boyfriends. I'm sorry but your pathetic.
2006-09-22 03:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋