i kinda like this girl from my judo trainings and well, she became my sparring partner, i'm kinda new playing the game so i'm kinda clumsy in front of her. i dont like having the feelings cause it will definetely ruin my relationship with her. but somehow it makes me happy seeing her everyday. what do you think i should do? i cant quit cause judo has become a part of my life. i'm really confuse so please give me some advice.
2006-09-21 20:06:14 · 3 answers · asked by caige 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax a bit, and take your feelings for this girl one day at a time. Having feelings for her won't definately ruin your relationship for her - but allowing them to overwhelm everything else will. so just stay in control of yourself, and don't obsess. Maybe she reciprocates, or maybe she will in the future. Just try to relax and concentrate on Judo - that's why you are there, not for her. You could ask to switch sparring partners if that would help. There are plenty of legitimate reasons for doing so.
2006-09-21 20:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i see... i've experienced that too... twice already!!!
my ex... i was too shy to him so he decided to break up with me... but i already got over with him...
and now, i have this guy courting me, and at first we are shy to each other... but for sometime, we are not shy anymore!!! we really tried to take away our shyness to talk to each other!
try to tell her... if she'll try to distance away, try to wait, but if she says that she really dont like you... try to forget her, and ask for another sparing partner...
and about you being clumsy infront of her... that's okay! maybe she'll likeyou for that! you'll never know!!
well.. best luck to you!
2006-09-22 06:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by o0psi3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..isn't that a sweet, innocent crush...just do whatever makes you happy...even if it means you have to look clumsy in front of her...
2006-09-22 03:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by matty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋