Called her about a problem and she flips open her cell phone and blares some music into the phone and says nothing. I call back and get the same thing , the music.Is that childish or what ? What would you do? She is like 55 , and I am an adult .
2006-09-21 20:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds weird to me....
2006-09-21 20:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time to have a sit-down chat with mom... she must be pissed about something. She's certainly trying to get extra attention. I wonder what's up?
Yes. The loud music on the phone is childish... Is this a completely new behavior for her? ... has she always been a little out of sync with the norm?
((( r u randy? )))
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2006-09-22 03:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WIthout a lot of background it is hard to say why your mother would react this way. Do you phone her often with problems and want them sorted out? Maybe she thinks you are old enough to sort your own problems out. I really think there must be deeper issues here or else your mother is just not a nice person.
2006-09-22 03:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am often widely dissappointed in my mom. when i was in highschool, i confided in her, telling her some things about the guy who had just broken up with me, about how he hurt me, etc. and she said, "mardi, why is it you just won't do anything about your face? i told you, i'll pay for you to see a dermatologist." and last week, she called me, and i was VERY upset and feeling very lonely, and like i just really needed someone to talk to. i told her that my husband and i have been having problems, and i asked her if she could please call me back in half an hour when he left for work. and she said, "well, i guess i can if you really NEED me to." !
sorry. didn't mean to go off on my own stuff, when we were talking about you. but one thing has been suggested to me: it may be that my mom just can't handle hearing these things about me, and so she handles it badly by blowing me off or changing the subject. it's sh*tty, but it does suggest that she cares.
2006-09-22 03:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is'nt right she should listen to you. you are acting like the adult and she is acting like the child. what you should do is get her in person and that way she can't turn up her music. Try expressing your felling to her asking her why she don't listen to you and see what she say.
2006-09-22 03:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Live love laugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some cell phones do that thay play songs when you call them are you OK now
2006-09-22 03:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. Do you have a close friend? It isn't right for her to do that. Definitly not supportive. Certainly not acting her age.
2006-09-22 03:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very immature. A mother, especially one at that age should know better.
2006-09-22 03:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Amberly Pattison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not be her fault, do you live away from your mum, when did you last see her? i know 55 is not old but people younger than this have mini strokes,it causes short term memory loss and it can make them do some strange things. my dad is 77 and very healthy and fit and still working. but i came home one day last year and he was outside in his car, when we came in the house i put my little boy on the sofa coz he was sleeping, my dad watched me put him there, we went out the kitchen and i noticed he'd put up part of my shed, he said to me "who put that up then?", i thought he was pulling my leg but he really couldn't remember putting it up. he went back in the living room, looked at my son sleeping and said " i didn't know he was here". he then wanted to go and look at the shed, when we did , my side and back door keys were out there, all the tools were on the shed floor and he still thought i had someone else come and do it for me. next, he said he was going home, so he got in his car and said bye and i stood by the car waiting until he drove off, didn't happen! he put the key in the ignition, put his belt on and started playing with the radio, he done this at least 10 times. then my boyfriend pulled up and they both got out of their car, my dad said "you got a new car", he asked how long he had it, walked up to the house then came back and done this again, over and over he kept asking, we took him back out the back to look at the shed, and he asked what his tools were doing out there, he just kept laughing and saying " no,no,no,no,no, i didn't put that up, your playing tricks on me, you done it". he went back out and asked my boyfriend again about his car, then went and got in his. i suggested my boyfriend take him home and he said we were imagining things, and called us stupid, he wouldn't do this. i phoned his nxdoor neighbors and they came to mine,the man was going to drive my dad back, again he said we were all being stupid and said "look i can drive my car now i'll show you", got in his car, key in, belt on and radio on, radio off, on off on off on off. in the end my dad did drive back with his neighbor as his passenger. i rang the hospital and they sent an ambulance to get him for a check up becoz of his age, but he refused to go, so they asked him for my peace of mind if he would get checked out in the ambulance, he done it and was mad with me, but at least he realized he'd been over doing it. he's fine now. hope you get some kind of answer and everythings alright.
2006-09-22 05:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Topaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more history here than we are hearing.
2006-09-22 03:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Norton N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋