My bf's away for business trip to London for 2-3 mos. All my friends go "Gosh! aren't you worried that chad will cheat on you? i mean 3 mos is a long time. A hot man like him sure has lots english women surrounding him. he's always that popular. if i were you, i'd worry to death and tried not think about this. just have fun here!"
I trust him and i know him very well, but i can't stand my friends who keep saying something like that. they sound like i'm blinded by love.
What the hell am i doing wrong here? Gosh!
2006-09-21 19:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I trust him!
2006-09-21 19:48:00 · update #1
trust in him and your relationship!
don't let your friends get to you too much, or else you'll be paranoid and worried sick to your stomach.
also, you know your bf more than them. trust him.
2006-09-21 19:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by nyczclara 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, u must remember 1 thing: Trust is the most important thing between a couple. Without trust, u can't do anything together!
Ask your heart, has him gained your trust over the time? If he has proved that he worths it, then what are u worring now? I believe he also has put his trust on u! That's why he bear to leave u for the trip.
Putting away the doubts and thoughts of others, u should trust your heart and your man. U may get hurt in the end(i know this is what u worry), but u have to give a try... Give him a try and he will prove to u.
2006-09-21 22:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i guess unless he confides in you i really dont see if you will ever see behind the curtin on that one,heres ur 2 sided coin lol,i would honestly tell ur freinds to shut the he** up and worry about there own men,as for you did it only come to your mind that he "might" be doing something behind your back,or was it only until your friends said something? my girls father goes all over the world and has for many many years, trips that take 4 weeks or longer,iv had a few drunkin man talks with him and not one time did he regret his wife,only not being there with her as much. so i think hes got to do what hes got to do. good luck it only goin to be 3 weeks could be longer!:)
2006-09-21 20:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting your bf is ok.
Yes, 2-3 months apart can be hard.
I can't tell you what he may or may not be doing.
Sometimes it is not love that we are blinded by, but it is the reality that we are blinded from.
Like the commercial, what happens in London, stays in London.
Eventually, that will no longer stay unknown.
2006-09-21 19:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be very attractive and are probably a nice person. If any man feels he can cheat on a woman like you, he's crazy. In other words, if he is smart and caring, he won't; if he's not very nice, and you can see that already, then he might.
If the case is he isn't, then your friends are not vary fair to you. You'll have to decide things yourself about your relationship with him and your friends.
Good luck!
2006-09-21 19:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by tiko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend just meant well. It's man nature very difficult to resist woman (sex). Accordingly to recent research, out of 10 men, 7 will cheat their partner physically if there are chances. He is a lucky man who have to nice girlfriend that trust him. He may not cheat you emotionally, but physically...as a man I just reserve my comment.
2006-09-24 16:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur friends sound like they're jealous of u having such a great boyfriend. But anyway...men will be men...and they're ur friends, they might be just trying to warn u to prevent u from getting hurt next time. If u trust ur boyfriend enough, there's no need to worry or bother about what they say. It's ur boyfriend, not theirs.
2006-09-21 19:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to burst your bubble, but it is more likely than not that he will sleep with others while away.. but it's not relationship starting stuff.. it's just sex.. Guys get the deadly sperm buildup.. they have got to either masturbate or have sex regularly.. so don't worry about it. There will be plenty of boyfriends along the road of life.
2006-09-21 19:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by oneblondepilgrim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is away in Large cities (especially in Europe) for any length of time he will undoubtedly be tempted by any number of "Gentleman's Escort Services" not to mention street prostitutes. Yes I know, he would never do such a thing!
Nor would I!
whatever
2006-09-21 19:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by scummibear 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think of you ought to confront him approximately your emotions & strategies & share your concerns with him. perhaps tell him what you want & want from him. feels like your have confidence ought to be repaired, understandably so. What ever you do, voice your concerns & pay attention. It feels like he wasn't lots cheating as he grew to become into exploring and he grew to become into afraid to share it with you. desires & fears could make human beings act surprisingly at situations.
2016-10-15 07:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misery loves company. They are propagating their fears and misgivings about their relationships on you. Just tell them that you don't have to worry about your relationship and leave it at that. Or, just ignore them altogether..
Hey !! What's with the thumb down ?? Look at the beautiful person that posted this question...There is NO guy that would risk losing her !! He's not cheating.
2006-09-21 19:48:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋