She asked me to move in with her, but I said no.
She will not get divorced, she says "it's the money from him".
Our relationship went way downhill after that.
2006-09-21 19:27:10 · 9 answers · asked by alysonhell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met her after she was separated.
2006-09-21 19:55:24 · update #1
you did the right thing. moving in with her before she is officially divorced would have been hard on both of you. moving in is something to do when all other obstacles have been cleared, because living together is basically another test or obstacle for the two of you.
2006-09-21 19:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by rahulio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a good idea getting the house. Now you can plan for a future when you find some gal that is there for you and you alone. Money will always be this married girl's excuse to stick around and you may be the next unfortunate one on her list.
2006-09-22 02:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not wrong to buy a house instead of moving in with her . If she does not want to get devorced that living with her would just be a complication you do not want. Maybe you should think about moving on with someone that is not married
2006-09-22 02:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you would have been wrong if you had movied in with your separated girlfriend instead of buying a house.
2006-09-22 02:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by spanier88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way you did the wright thing, get on with your life and when she has finished with her previous relationship and your still interested think about it then, good luck
2006-09-22 02:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find a single female....
2006-09-22 02:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say you should count your blessings and dump her for good. She's using her husband she'll use you too. Also she cheated on him so she'll prob cheat on you too
2006-09-22 02:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very mature decision !!!
2006-09-22 02:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf, Hell No!!! Man, you just saved yourself from a lot of GRIEF!
2006-09-22 02:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by Neil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋