After meeting your right how long do you think the two love birds should remain in courtship before marriage or knowing each other before marriage?
2006-09-21 19:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by ebenezer k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was with my partner 10yrs before getting married! The fool I am,Its somthing I will never do again!
2006-09-21 19:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as it takes to make sure you are right for each other.
Courtship is about getting to know each other thoroughly. You should go through a few rows and intense times before you commit to one another. Its a pre-run of life to come and should be seen as that.
The only thing it will not tell you is how you will both look in 30 years time lol
2006-09-22 02:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the couple ... i met my hubby in a nite club an after 2 months we were engaged an by 8 months married i didnt no him before either an our marraige worked out for 17 yrs an had beautiful daughters from it ... now we diivorced an got 3 fantastic grandchildren an we are best of friends ... so u see its depends on the couple nothing else
2006-09-22 02:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by pollypocket150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The American Indians said to wait four seasons before marrying.
There is much wisdom in that. Why rush if you are already bonded?
Insecurity is a reason for marriage, but not a good one!
2006-09-22 02:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience do not rush, but if you are gonna get married make sure u are majorally in luv!!!
2006-09-22 02:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by intoxicatedcinderella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run, slowly walk into marriage !
2006-09-22 02:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by raymond_condell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say it takes a year to get to know someone, look at how they treat there family and friends, thats how you will be treated if you like what you see then go for it. good luck!!
2006-09-22 02:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only took me 18 years,to marry her
2006-09-22 02:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself lots of time, maybe er about 10 years. then you will really know what you are letting yourself in for.
2006-09-22 02:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how they feel about each other.
2006-09-22 02:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by kath68142 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋