ok im a good looking woman and i cook clean work you name it,try to please everyone,never cheat etc..but the only men i seem to attract are losers who cheat on me lie and mistreat me,ive tried dating all types of men and it just happens over and over any thoughts?
2006-09-21 18:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by damnlucky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop trying so hard. Let people know right off the bat that you are independant and a hard worker and you won't date losers who don't work just as equally hard as you. If they start to slack, cut 'em lose at the first sign, just let them know why. Maybe they will learn eventually and not try that bs with anyone else!
2006-09-21 18:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have a tendency to repeat their choices with significant others , like a bad habit that keeps occurring. If u are all u say u are (and I'm sure u are) then u are probably attracting other types of men , but your vision remains clouded by the same ole stereotype that u have chosen . Try dating " everyone "who asks u out.... they probably won't all be winners , but not all losers either
in any respect, u sound like u need to change your requisites for what u want in a man. I mean you are the one making the choices
2006-09-21 19:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by RenoDeano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem for the longest time and what I realized is that everytime I dated a loser, my friends saw it way before I did. So here's what I did......I gave my friends the power of veto. Anyone they said I couldn't date, I stayed away from. It was hard - I personally go for the angry ones who were also passionate and confident and good looking. But I did it. And the first person who got through the veto has been my other half for 4 years now. Look to your friends. They know
2006-09-21 18:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by suzi7693 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good looking, hard working, good cook. You almost sound too perfect. Where are you finding all these loser dates? It's kind of like the guy that goes to the doctor and bends his neck funny and says "hey Doc, it hurts when I do this". The Doc says" then Quit doing this". You need to quit doing what you're doing because it isn't working. Change your habits. Go to a different store, church, library, gas station, etc. Eventually you are going to meet the right guy. Good luck.
2006-09-21 19:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by nicksriders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't add up here. Maybe you're giving "attraction" cues to those losers without realizing it, or putting up with their nonsense when you should be showing them the door. Try telling them to GET LOST. Hold out for a good man. Sounds like you have a lot to offer, so don't settle for less than you deserve.
Best of luck!
2006-09-21 18:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I dont know what the men you are dating look like. I'm sorta shallow. I like to have a nice looking man. Problem is, they know it and so, they are ***holes. Seems as though, they are picking you, not you.. picking them. Its your life, YOU choose who you want to date. Life is too short to settle for less than what you want. Only in a perfect world will you find exactly what you want so just be a little more selective.
2006-09-21 19:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 sides to that. one side is you may want to reevaluate the items that you are interested in. if you are going for looks or sports or something, that might be part of it. I am a guy so I can;t say for sure, but most guys always go for the hot girls. you do not have to accept them. find a nice guy become friends or what not and you may find a great guy, he may not be the best looking or in the best shape, but he won't cheat or lie :P
2006-09-21 18:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the life of an average human being...
So, you're just facing a series of sad dates... But don't give up just yet..
The fortune will change & somewhere you'll find someone just right for you!
& if you aren't able to stick to a relationship, maybe apart from cursing them, you could also analyse WHY it's happening to you & if there's something wrong with what you are doing...
Hope the mist clears soon.
Cheers!
2006-09-21 18:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by misanthropia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah- you try to please evryone. how about pleasing yourself first!
I also have had my fair share of lost men come to me looking for direction i figure.if i go for them i always end up dissapointed. raise the bar. higher standards. make a list of what you really want. dont settle. work on your self for a while.
2006-09-21 18:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by dpegra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋