me and my boyfriend have arguments and sometimes they make me alittle upset when he blow up on me about something i did'nt do and when I start crying he hang up in my face or tell me he don't want to hear it. Why is that?
2006-09-21 18:47:06 · 17 answers · asked by Live love laugh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's because he has no feelings men need to have feelings for women when I cry my husband holds me and comforts me and that's what he should do I know what that's like though cause my ex B/F use to pull the same crap with me every time I would cry or be upset he would just ignore me or tell me to stop the jerk would even laugh at me your boyfriend just needs to learn to have more feelings you don't deserve that if he continued this I would find someone else who cares about my feelings you don't need anyone like that he sounds selfish and cold hearted you deserve better
2006-09-21 20:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's one of those guys that just don't know how to comfort a girl when crying. Maybe he's also too upset to comfort you. When the both of you are happy, ask him why he doesn't comfort you when crying. That'll be the best time for him to give you a reasonable answer.
2006-09-22 02:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he feels like **** for making you cry, so like a coward hangs up and runs away. MALE EGOS work in mysterious ways. But after awhile of putting up with his crap, you will finally stop crying. You shouldn't wait that long. Find a guy who cares more about making things work as a team, not leaving you to figure it out on your own......then let him cry for awhile.
2006-09-21 18:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uno I think thats totally a personal thing for the guy...what reaction....Im sure thats not across the board kind of thing. Maybe if he's used to making girls cry in his past, then probably he reacts by running. Other guys would try to calm you and themselves and dry your tears.
2006-09-21 19:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because so many of you girls do that sh*t that it gets old and it dosn't effect us like ya'll would like it to. If you girls stop crying over every single crisis in your lives then we would pay attention to you when you actually cry over something worth crying over. It's like crying "wolf" over and over, so when there is a real wolf, we don't care.
2006-09-21 21:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because He doesn't want to hear it......hes telling you just how much hes concerned with your emotions....and another thing NEVER NEVER NEVER, cry in front of boys you lose your power.
2006-09-21 18:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking and not crying, some guys cant deal with that...
2006-09-21 19:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you are using crying as a way to manipulate him.
2006-09-21 18:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of 2 things, either he is a jerk, or he feels guilty or bad he did it and feels that is a sign of being weak or uncool/manly
2006-09-21 18:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that jerk and start dating your English teacher.
2006-09-21 18:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋