How to deal with a violent bf?

Answer 1

well .. you dump him.. with the phone on hand and a get away car.. and you out a restraining order against him!
DON"T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! LEAVE.. go find happiness!

Answer 2

You mean how to deal with a violent EX-boyfriend, don't you?

You certainly don't want to make it dealing with a violent Husband, so why waste your time any longer? You need to get him Out of Your LIfe, right now!

Contact a women's shelter. You may need to get a restraining order. You may need to move. You need to DO whatever you need to do. You don't give us much information. That's what you need to do with him--not give him information, and just drop him.

Answer 3

I am a firefighter/EMT.

I will give you advice this one time.

RUN AWAY. FAR AWAY. GET OUT OF THERE AS FAST AS YOU CAN.

I cannot count the number of times I have had to patch up girls after their boyfriend beats the crap out of them.

What's worse, are the calls that I had to zip up a girl in a body bag, after their boyfriend KILLED them.

That's right. DEAD. Not hurt, not crying, not telling themselves that he really loves them.

DEAD.

If he's really violent, get some help. There are lots of places that help out with these situations.

But you need to get away from him. Real men do not hit women. Its as easy as that. You deserve so much better.

If he beats you. He does not love you. No matter what he says afterwords.

Answer 4

Depends some men are really hard to deal with.Everyone say just leave,well its not always that easy.Some men will follow you!And some say go to the police, granted yes that might scare them to leave you alone but then there's some that does not care til they go to jail and then when they get out there back at it again.I say learn to protect yourself one way or another and go to a women's batter clinic so maybe they can help you out to keep you safe.

Answer 5

Leave the guy. He will not change. If he becomes violent, call the police and file a restraining order w/ the court. Do it.

Answer 6

Violent Behaviour is Not ever a one-off thing!
Get out!
Get Out NOW!
You are worth More!
Respect yourself!

Answer 7

You don't say, but regardless of if the violence is towards you or others.... you need to move on. I was in a four year relationship like this and was in love. It took everything to leave him, but you have to, before you get hurt. Even if his violence is towards others it will turn into you being the one that gets the "blame", if you want to call it that, for what others have done. Don't be this person!!
Get out! Now!

Answer 8

Violent is the only word i need to hear
stay away from him period and if he wont leave you alone if necessary call the Police but get away from him that's the best advice! i broke up with a guy that was sicho!

Answer 9

Get out as soon as you can. Find someone you can trust (your family, friends, spiritual advisor) and confide in them. You will need the emotional support. Hopefully you won't need a safe haven, but better to have someplace you can go if it gets out of hand. Don't hesitate to call the authorities if you cannot leave or if you are pursued.

Answer 10

Dump him. Now.

It'll only get worse. i had an abusive boyfriend for years. Thank God I didn't end up dead before I mustered up the guts to dump him. I know it'll be a hard thing to do, but if you've tried to explain things to him and it STILL doean't make a difference, it's not worth it, hun. You deserve better.

Answer 11

Believe him when he tells you it will never happen again, and try to love him more, be there for him so that he doesn't get the urge to hit. He loves you and it hurts him more than it hurts you. Be sure to forgive him when he makes a mistake because all guys do. Cornering him and confronting him and blaming him will only encourage the outbursts.