other but the last week we've been arguing alot about stupid stuff. I don't want the relationship to go on like this but I don't want us to see other people either. It's like we forgot about being friends and is just trying to make a serious relationship. We also have very busy schedules I have 2 jobs, college and a child, he works 7 days straight for 2 months now. So I know we are both stressed out. What should I do.
2006-09-21 18:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by single mami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk and see if it is worth it anymore. To me is sounds like your relationship is really not worth it anymore. It really seems that you do not even really have a relationship anymore. I think you two need to have a really good talk about what you want from each other, because it does not seem to be going all that well right now and the future does not seem to look that good either. Why waste time like this, move on.
2006-09-21 18:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since yall are both having a hard time, and both are stressed out, why don't yall take a break? You don't have to break up and see other people, just take a break from the relationship so you both have some time for yourselves and figure out if you all want the relationship to continue. I know college and a child can be very stressful! Good Luck!
2006-09-22 01:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other it is worth regardless of what others say. what i would recommend is have him take a day off and u do the same, find someone to babysit and go have yourselves a romantic evening to regain that spark. have someone keep your child all day and night so that you two can have some quality time with each other. it sounds to me like this is what you are missing. working a lot of hours can make your relationship stressful. what you and him have to do is figure out a way to leave work at work and home at home. if you can do this then your relationship should blossom. take a day just the two of u and enjoy each others company and have a nice romantic date with each other. good luck.
2006-09-22 01:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a breather...Sit it out for a little bit. Take some vacation time together, at least a weekend. Talk it over and see what directions both of you are heading in. Just take a step back and view it from an outsiders perspective.
2006-09-22 01:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a Break from each other!
lay down the ground rules of the break!
i.e. No Other Partners, Specify how long apart would be suitable, rules on communication.
This will either pull you back together or accelerate the outcome
2006-09-22 01:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a small step back, take a deep breath and let the cards fall where they may, because it seems that what you guys are doing now isn't working out the way you want it.
2006-09-22 01:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool down - talk to each other to accept the hard time - don't get angry, don't get angry don't get angry. Fight is the worse way to nowhere.
You want the best for your family working hard.
Make a plans for 10 days vacations.
2006-09-22 01:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, its so important to MAKE time to talk to each other about this. when things happen talk about it...when you argue talk about it...when youre happy talk about it....gently and calmly talk. I know thats harder than it sounds but i honestly believe that it isnt love unless you´re willing to stick it through the rough times so you can enjoy the good ones
2006-09-22 01:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋