Seriously... me and this gurl have been doign really well and then out of nowhere literatly she a different person... i think that she is playin games and i want to win her heart.. i cant stop thinking bout her its driving me crazy... whats the best way to beat her at her own game and win her heart... im thinking about callin her tonight and telling her exactly how i feel and hope that she feels the same... but i called her and she didnt pick up.. so i left a message sayin call me back we need to talk... but she hasn't called me back and i dont think she is.. so if i see her at school tommorow should i ignore her??
2006-09-21 18:26:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-21 18:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand why you want to have this girl. Just remember your age. You are too young to be tied down. Which.. maybe this is what she is thinking. She might think you are the greatest guy, but she didnt call you back. She could be worried that you have something bad to tell her..or.. like i said, she might know what you want to say.. and she might not be ready for it. Either way, of course you should tell her how you feel but dont throw it ALL out there. Just do it a little at a time.. maybe in the same conversation, but see how she's reacting. If she dont want to date you, just remember, girls can be evil. She might tell everyone she knows.. to boost her ego and make a fool of you. I'd hate for that to happen. For your sake.. I hope she really likes what you have to say.
2006-09-21 18:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its school night go to sleep already !! Seriously I think she is playing games. girls do that all the time just when u think everything is perfect . Don't try to face her lack of logic, but don't ignore her either .She´s probably acting normal with your common friends so if u ask them you might end up feeling like u took crazy pills . Don't forget why you are in school . Tell her that u are both gonna be in college one day and become professionals so u cant be treating each other like kids .
LOL dam I forgot. U are kids. Just tell her " U know. We are gonna have tons of fun as soon as you come back to normal "
2006-09-21 19:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Loser Millionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have some guts you will go to this chick and tell her exactly how you feel,and hopefully she feels the same way about you, you will never know unless you give it a try...and is worth a shot,the worst thing that can happen is you get a no.
Fortune favors the bold. It`s now or never.
Good Luck!
2006-09-21 19:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ignore. be frank. say " hey- what s up? I dont play games- so lets get this out in the open. " and it might hurt- but at least you will know. the coolest thing a guy said to me after i gave him my number was " can i call you tonight --cause i dont play games." Strait up. dont **** around. so i said, "yeah, you better!"
Three weeks later he says " its not working out for me." and I said " fine. i had a nice time," yes it hurt, but at least i am not sitting around wondering about it!
2006-09-21 18:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by dpegra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pretendo beezies ( did i got it ryt?)
u posted a lot of questions that goes with the same idea, i suppose u really like this gurl a lot!!!
don't be a afraid to tell her what ure telling us, or else u may suffer from heart attact (jk)
2006-09-21 18:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to win her heart don't ignore her...
go and talk to her and ask why she didn't call you back....
Oh and tell her to stop playing games with ya....
2006-09-21 18:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has found someone else. Try telling her your feelings. If she doesn't act like she should, then move on. Just my opinion, cause it never worked for me to wait to see what happens.
2006-09-21 18:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons she might have acted that way...is for you to feel that way..
So basicaly just act like u don't care!! trust me its worth the pain...besides you will get over it anyway
2006-09-21 18:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by tinnaaa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No games.
No phone calls.
No screwing around.
Corner her. Tell her how you feel. Period.
No ignoring her
No subtilties.
Be a man. buck up, and tell her about it.
2006-09-21 18:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, e honest and be confident in your feelings. Show her she is what you want and you aren't afraid to go after it.
2006-09-21 18:31:39 · answer #11 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋