How many of you would date someone who was not physically attractive but you got to know them and they had a really great personality? And if your friends made fun of that person would it matter to you? Be honest don't just put down what you think people would want to read. This is not about me I was just wondering.
2006-09-21 18:21:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good-looks are a dime a dozen anymore (with all the plastic surgery out there) but a good personality is close to impossible to find. So not only would i date her i would be thankful for every moment with her.............and i would be sure to make out with her as much as possible in front of as many better looking girls as i could.
People like to say "Get a life!"
I like to say "Get a personality!"
Oh and i wouldn't have to worry about my friends making fun of her because hardly anybody on this planet has enough of a soul and personality for me to consider them as a friend anyway.
2006-09-21 18:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Shadowstorm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is LOVE. It should not matter about physical attraction or not.
Yes, it might help the ball rolling faster. But you got to know a really great person. Now it has developed into something very positive. If your friends really are your friends they will support you in your happiness.
I feel that if you find love WITHOUT looking for it. It is even more powerful when the two people click together.
I remember WAY back in the sixth grade. I had a girlfriend she looked like a BULL DIKE. If you know what that is. Come to find out she was. But anyway. My neighbor wanted to know did I think she looked good. My answer was NO. But I had love for her.
2006-09-22 01:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had a better relationships with ordinary people than I have with those that believe they could be God's gift to womankind. I also have decided to surround myself with real friends that wouldn't make fun of my choice, but find out about the great person I'm dating and support my decision to be with that person.
Shallow people are a dime a dozen. Good character lasts a lifetime.
2006-09-22 01:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by iniyaitza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is important, but I also think that once you get to know someone, and you like their personality, they will become attractive to you. I THINK!! But hey, if I like her then who cares what other people think. And I know my friends they would not laugh, and if they did then I would shrug it off and eventually they would come around. But to be honest if I am not initially attracted to the person I stay away. Perhaps its wrong but better safe than sorry.
2006-09-22 01:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. I never was the type to date people because of their looks. No doubt it helps, but when you are attracted to somebody's personality, looks won't matter. And my friends and family made fun of this guy but he treated me good and we had fun, so I didn't have a reason to be embarassed.
2006-09-22 01:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by goodfowlkes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known really hot guys that turned out to be real jerks and really average looking guys who turned out to be princes. The way you feel about someone can dramatically change the way you see them.
After getting to know them, in my eyes, the princes became the hot ones and the jerks became pretty unappealing to me.
I would date someone who was not physically unattractive to other people as long as I personally was attracted to them.
As for my friends making fun of him, well, I would hope my friends had more respect for me than to do that because they aren't the ones who are in my relationship. It would be pretty hard to deal with to be honest, but I wouldn't allow my friends to change my mind about someone I was really compatible with just because they don't like the way he looks.
2006-09-22 01:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hard when the one you love isnt phiscally attractive it causes a certain unfair embarrassment and worry that the one you have these feelings for would feel bad if they found out that you didnt find them phsically appealing it makes things even worse when ypour alwasy trying to shut up those around you who are always making comments about how you coulda done better the thing is onceyou find that person and you click the looks matter very little yes its a bit of a challenge but so is most things worth while.
2006-09-22 01:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would, and if my friends made fun of someone I cared about, I'd have to wonder what kind of friends they were. Ultimately, we all have to look out for what makes us happy, and not look for a man to make our friends happy. In the end, you have to ask what matters most to you. Are looks enough? Or is finding someone who you enjoy being with and who treats you well going to make you happier?
2006-09-22 01:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think personality is what make a person.For real think about it when you go out with that person or sleep with them would you really want your friend up your butt anyways. So who cares what the friend thinks they need to tend with there own life or there not much of a friend anyways.
2006-09-22 01:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by starlight203_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off this is about you. Why are you so embarrassed that you have to say this is not about you. Well your the one asking, so dah. this is about you. And you say your friends make fun of that person. Well what do you think you are doing by saying this is not about you.....
If you are happy. Then your friends should be happy. If they make fun of him, then they are not your friends ok. If my friends made fun of him, I would be hurt.
2006-09-22 01:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋