2006-09-21 18:15:56 · 24 answers · asked by oguragumon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That would depend if the one you truly love,loves you back.If not,then i would not pursue that relationship any further,because it would be one sided,just like the one you mentioned about the one that loves you.Apparently,you do not want the relationship with the one that loves you,due to you not being able to feel the same back towards her.Either or it sounds as though both ways would be one sided emotions,and it wouldn't be fair for them and most of all it would definitely not be fair for you! Who would want any relationships that only one person loves and the other really doesn't care that much.It sounds like you shouldn't pick either and move on with a clean sweep on life,i think you will find yourself feeling more relaxed and free from all the emotions that are or would be involved.Follow your heart and best wishes to you in making your choice,Good Luck!
2006-09-21 18:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Because either way is settling.
If you choose the one who loves you, you are settling for less than what you want and no matter how great that person is to you, it's very hard to try to LEARN to love someone and there's no guarantee that it will happen. And if you don't love them, it's very hard to be intimate and very hard to have the motivation to work through every day issues that come up in relationships. Above all, it's not fair to the person who loves you with all their heart if you can not give them love in return.
If you choose the one you love but doesn't love you, you will be on the receiving end of such a relationship.
Having been on both sides I can tell you that neither feels particularly good.
Don't settle for less than loving someone who loves you back.
2006-09-22 01:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the situation you are in and for you to be asking this question i can tell that you do not have much experince-not to be mean. You have to experience being with the one that you love before the one that loves you because then u will realize that you need someone that loves you and you will learn to love that person back. But if you go with the one that loves you then you will not be grateful for his/her love and take advantage of that person and end up cheating and hurting him/her.
2006-09-22 01:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by kimberlychanel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the one who loves me
2006-09-22 01:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To prevent myself from being hurt, i would say choose the one who loves me. But I do know many of u say so, but did another way-choosing the one u love.
In some kind of ways, humanity thinking changes.
I dunno which age category u're in, but i can say that teenagers would definitely choose the one they love & not the one who loves them. I can understand that as im going thru' this stage now. But nw im beginning to step into the adult stage... I can tell u, young adults will choose the one who loves u. Besides of getting hurt easily, u will also be feeling bliss. Tat's what female young adults think & wants.
All the best.
2006-09-22 01:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you chose the one who loves you- there's a possibility that you might cheat on her (given the opportunity) with the one you love.
If you chose the one whom you love.....she might cheat on you with the one she loves.
Which one do you want to be?
I'd say ...wait for the right one...the one who loves you as much as you love her.
2006-09-22 01:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as love between two people. We do not no what it is like to love. We are living today in a world off Las Vegas marriages, and online divorces.
2006-09-22 01:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one i love
2006-09-22 01:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by raina_susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel you have to choose either or. I believe that you can find someone who you love and who loves you just the same back.
2006-09-22 01:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one I love....
2006-09-22 01:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Apostolic Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋