im going out with this girl and want to hold her hand but dont no how to approach it. just reaching out and grabbing her hand seems to weird to me. helP?
2006-09-21 17:50:58 · 13 answers · asked by that one kid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey thanks everyone, all i did was ask her and she said yes so we held hands! alot of people said that i should just ask, so im just going to let this one go to a vote. Thanks alot!
2006-09-22 17:37:04 · update #1
just wait for the right moment, you'll know.
2006-09-21 17:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is sitting down, offer your hand to her to help her up and don't let go. if your walking beside her, hold your hand toward her and let her take it. you can rest your hand lightly on her back at her waist or put your hand on her shoulder. this will give a connection and tell you if she shys away from the contact.
you're right to not just "grab" her hand, unless you're running for a bus or out of the rain.
2006-09-22 00:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by gelfin1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, simple. Dont just fastly reach out and grab her hand. I want you to talk about a special topic... a touching one. Or look into her eyes and tell her shes beautiful (NOT HOT CUZ THATS A MISTAKE), or tell her she has a nice smile, eyes, etc. Then slowly reach for her hand. make a memorable and romantic moment out of it.
2006-09-22 00:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by EngagedWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she keeps her hand in her lap it meens she doesn't want you to hold it, but if she keeps her hands say on her knees you can go right ahead and hold it, that's to say when your'e sitting down say in the movies. when you are walking somewhere and her hand brushes over yours it means she wants you to hold it. don't be shy try holding her hand she will tell you if she doesn't like it or she will let go of it. good luck, i just think to ask her if you could hold her hand might be akward, so just try taking it!!
2006-09-22 01:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to approach a girl is by simply asking her do you want to hold my hand? or just grabbing it. if she likes you she wont mind.
2006-09-22 00:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by samarie diar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, don't just reach out and GRAB her hand (like your grabbing something off the table), Just gently put your hand on hers and if she wants to hold your hand she will, if she don't she won't.
Or you could just ask her if she'd like to hold hands.
2006-09-22 00:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by iwish40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask if you could hold her hand she should smile and say thank you for asking and you will gain her respect
2006-09-22 00:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be respectful. Ask if you may hold her hand. She probally would be glad to say "yes ".
2006-09-22 00:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! I am sure it is the only thing your friend is waiting for you to do. No need to be ashamed or what! Actually iy's a very sweeeeeeeeet thing to do.
2006-09-22 00:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by halokitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it!
2006-09-22 00:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by katie larsen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nothing works, try asking for her hand
2006-09-22 00:53:08 · answer #11 · answered by buddhaboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋