My friend just broke up with her bf, and she's really sad about it. Please help I feel really bad for her. I don't know how to cheer her up. Can anyone tell me any ways that i can help her?
2006-09-21 17:45:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe taker her out to a really cheesy movie. Something funny and stupid. Then hit the mall and maybe get her some earrings or something, then hit up a coffee joint to just have a nice long chat. Sometimes just the closeness of a friend and a friendly smile are all a person needs to feel better.
2006-09-21 17:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by DevonChaos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When dealing with a broken heart,the only thing that will help is the healing of time,but in the mean while be that best friend that she and you know that you are.If she doesn't want to go anywhere,that's okay,just hang in with her and talk or just listen if she feels like talking.Maybe rent some movies and have junk food night.You have to start small to move to the big things like getting back into the swing of routine for her,remember she feels betrayed right now along with probably feeling humiliated at the same time.Talk to her and let her know that this is part of life and it's down falls,and that she hasn't truly met Mr.Right or this wouldn't of happened to her the way that it has.Like i mentioned,she will come around,just give her time and be there as much as you can.You are a truly a great friend for allowing this question about the concerns for your friend to be posted.She is very blessed and she will see this also in time after the sting leaves from her heart.Take care and good luck in all you do!
2006-09-22 01:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to cheer her up just talk to her and let her talk to u if she wants u to just listen then just listen all i could say is just make sure to get her to smile generally when people smile it usually means that they're forgetting about the event and they're not thinking about it a lot. but u've also got to watch out cuz if she dosent keep the smile up for a long time then that means its still hurting her inside so i would try to get her to talk about it just cuz bottling things up inside isnt the way to go with something like that. but i hope this is of some help. good luck in cheering up ur friend hope she feels better.
2006-09-22 01:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as a friend, all u can do is to spend plenty of time with her wenever u're free. dat'll help alot coz wen one is in a relationship, he/she tend to spend more time wit his/her gf/bf. so, when dey broke off, those time would be time dey get really emotional. so just spend more time wit her. have loads of fun. show her dat life can still go on w/o her ex-bf. dat life is much better. dat she can still live her life like how it used to be. dat she still have her family n friends, n u! make her feel happy n visible that love is not only from a relationship, but there's love as a friend, too.
all the best!
:)
2006-09-22 00:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. It is natural to feel hurt after something like this happens. Eventually everyday the pain will lessen until one day she is bigger than the pain. Right now the pain is bigger than she is, but that is expected. That is why it is called a period of mourning. Just listen, that's the best you can do for now.
2006-09-22 00:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Queen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is just be there for her. Maybe you two can go out and spend some time just the two of you.
2006-09-22 00:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing her the Happy Birthday song, never fails.
2006-09-22 01:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is worth so much more than he can give her, and that in the long run she will realize he wasnt for her anyway.
2006-09-22 00:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Amynesiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. is always hard after a break up.. it takes time to heal and rebuild yourself. just try to be there for her, she'll appreciate it more than anythin
2006-09-22 01:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by sugar507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is show your support, be there for her, and let time do its thing.
2006-09-22 00:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by marlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋