2006-09-21 17:34:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they work out
2006-09-23 12:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Long distance does put a strain on relationships,however only you both know how much you love one another,with that in mind the love you both share can see you threw and at the same time build even a stronger bond.Trust is the issue here to.You must have it in order to make it work along with the love that binds you to together.Just keep in mind the good things you both shared while you both were together,hopefully this distance will only be a short period.I know you must feel alot of emptiness being away form your mate and it is hard,but just remind yourself that when you do get to see your mate,how wonderful the wait was,that it was totally worth it.The absent from one another is suppose to make the heart grow even more fonder along with stronger.I am sure your mate is having the same feelings and you both need to encourage one another till you meet again.I wish you both the best and for a speedy reunion,always stay in touch,by phone,email,letters whatever it takes! If you truly want things to work out for you in this relationship,don't get discouraged and give up,be more positive about the relationship,you can do this if it is truly a deep love you feel for this person.Good luck to you both!
2006-09-22 00:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the couple...
I am currently in a long distance relationship...I am studying here in the US and my girlfriend is back home at the Philippines...
In order for a long distance relationship to work...TRUST and CONSTANT COMMUNICATION is a must...
Me and my girlfriend are in this kind of a relationship for a year now and hey, it is going great!
If you have the will and the determination...and if you are really in love with your partner...you will find ways to survive this long distance relationship
Hope that helps
=)
2006-09-22 00:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. It depends on the people involved, how deep the feelings are and how committed they are. If both parties are honest and committed they can be great relationships. If you or your partner has a tendency to be the jealous type, then it a long distance relationship would not be a very good idea.
2006-09-22 00:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the type and depth of the relationship. Trust is an important part no matter how deep or how long prior to the distance thing. I you met on line, be carefull, if the distance is due to the service or a job, be patient.
2006-09-22 00:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by geri11066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are! I am in a long distance relationship right now. We love each other with all of our hearts! Even though we are 2300 miles apart, that doesn't stop us from making plans to reach our dreams and goals for our future together. He will be moving out here to So Cal from Michigan and we'll be living together. I just know that with this time apart that we have had to spend, we will never take each other for granted! Good luck!
2006-09-22 00:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be, if you make an effort to make one another feel like a part of eachother's lives.
go out and do things as much as possible and don't make each other feel guilty for the EFFORT YOU are making because it takes Both to have the relationship.
meet one another's friends and family so neither of you feels like the other is hiding things.
DO NOT go on one on one outings with friends or collegues of the oppisite sex, it is the equivilent to Smacking your partner in the face in any relationship, ESPECIALLY this one.
Be honest. even at a distance, he/she will find out what you are lying about and resent the hell out of you because of it, maybe even leave the relationship.
treat him/her with the same respect that you want to recieve, and eventually one of you needs to relocate.
talk everyday and some times more than once if and when possible and maintain open communication.
2006-09-22 00:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no.I once met a girl online who I really cared about.She came to visit me 1200 miles away for one week and we had a great time.When I drove her to the airport to leave I was so depressed that on the way home i totaled my car.After that I felt akward and didnt talk to her for a long time.I just started talking to her again and now shes practically married w/ a kid.Biggest mistake I ever made in my life!If you trust the person and care about them it can work.
2006-09-22 00:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by cperr85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in one for 10 months now,I don't think they are worth it,we talk on the phone and it is like I have a best friend,not a b/f and I want to meet someone,so,if I am feeling tihs way,I need to tell him things have changed!It will be hard coz he is nice just 1,000 miles away!
2006-09-22 00:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, if the last they are. If two people can make it say two years spending that time away and not cheating, I would say they have a excellent relationship. I do not know many people who could do that, so give it a try, if you make it, you are that stronger of a person.
2006-09-22 00:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Talk about everything. Parties and who you hang out with become probelms. And one problem i had was...Girls can talk on phone, guys on the other hand have a hard time. Remember that it was the subject to many fights.
2006-09-22 00:42:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋