I like talking to this guy , Even though we haven't techinically done it ( as in penetration ) .Oral yes but I like penetration kiddies :) He has fingered me ,but it hurts like a biotch . He expects me to kum with this . but for the love of god I can't ( without clitoral stimulation or penetration) . He insists on talking during sex , I like it quiet it helps me concentrate on the feeling . Plus What are you supposed to talk about when having sex? The things most people say just sound cheesy to me sorry. Should I talk to him or dump him?
2006-09-21 16:27:37 · 19 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should evaluate your priorities. Why are you with him? If it's just sex, dump him. Respect yourself.
2006-09-21 16:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by mtnlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey,,,if it hurts with him just fingering you He sure doesn't know what he is doing. Of course the penis is much better feeling than a finger. And talking during sex is natural for some and not for others,,,of course it depends on wht U talk about too. If you really like him I would try and talk to him and tell him that you want the real thing and if he can't satisfy you then dump him and get one who will penetrate you with the good meat..!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 23:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guide his hands.. let him know he's doing it wrong. If us guys don't get taught, then we just do what we think is good. When I was first sexually active, I found that after a few days of guiding i was pretty good.
Tell him also to shut up and stop spoiling the mood. Ur either making out or chatting, not both. don't beat around the bush otherwise he might not fully understand and it will seem like wasted effort. If it doesn't improve in a week, dump him.. If he can't be trained in bed, then it's gonna be a sad sex life.
2006-09-21 23:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Sex is supposed to be good. If it's not good, what's the point? You've got fingers, and hands, and long-handled objects around the house.
If he's a nice guy, you can talk with him, and hang with him, but obviously, he isn't cutting it in bed. You can tell him he sucks, and needs re-training on how to get you off, or you can dump him, and find someone that give you what you need.
2006-09-22 00:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL FOR SOME PEOPLE....TALKING TURNS THEM ON......IF U HAVE TO HAVE IT QUIET JUS TO CONCENTRATE ON COMING...THEN HES NOT THE ONE FOR U...ONE DAY U WILL FIND A MAN WHO WILL TALK TO YOU AND U WILL LOVE IT...PLUS IF HE FINGERS U THEN THATS NOT SEX...SO U CAN REALLY SAY THE SEX SUX..........IF U HAVENT DONE IT YET ACTUALLY...
2006-09-21 23:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. How else is he gonna know what you like? At some point you'll have to do this with every man, so just get used to letting the man know what you want. You'll be the one rewarded for it.
2006-09-21 23:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ford F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your not that attracted to him and it doesn't look your happy so why stay with him? You should end things now and not later if things. Don't make things worse then they already are.Good Luck!
2006-09-21 23:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy with the sex, them you can't really have a good relationship. Move on.
2006-09-21 23:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by mike72fg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not working it right, dump him. also, thanks for ur input on talking during sex......its like a really bad, fake movie......i had a debate on that two days ago......thanks for supporting my arguement....it is cheesy and seems like distracting us away from poor performance by the other party.
2006-09-21 23:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see what the penetration is like , and if its not good dump him
2006-09-21 23:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋