Why do most guys looks for skinny girls & criticise plump girls? Why go for looks instead of characteristics??

Answer 1

Books say that's it natural to for guys to like skiny girls since they're termed more 'fit'....I say the media just influenced them so.

Answer 2

The media -- television, fashion magazines, advertising -- all promote being thin as the ideal image. Curvy girls are just as attractive, and some men actually prefer them. Looks themselves, are just a means to attract. Eventually they fade away, and what's left is the person's character. However, some people are so shallow, the only thing that matters is a bouncy butt and cleavage down to the navel.

My advice to you is to look for an older man. I don't know what your age is, but I'm guessing you're in your 20's. Men of this age are not as mature as their female counterparts. So go after guys that are 30-something. You'll find they are much more mature and know how to treat a woman. If you're a teen, you have a lot of years ahead of you. The boys in your age group are totally immature. And finally, if you're a mature woman 40-50, your age group of men should be at the stage where character is much more meaningful than looks. As for your being plump, you can still look ravishing. Hair, makeup, wardrobe, working out to keep fit, proper diet and plenty of rest -- all tools of the trade. Get advice from makeup experts and fashion consultants -- that is, if you feel you need it. Chances are, you're beautiful without embellishment. Look in the mirror. See what you can add or take away that will enhance your appearance. And think positive. Someday the man will come along that hates scrawny girls. And he will appreciate your character as much as your full figure.

Answer 3

I think it has to do with the way the male brain works. Women are more sensitive to emotions and stuff while men are more visual, physical beings. This is not to say of course, that men cant be intuitional or something, but this is just the trend of the male brain.

I dont think men neccisarily over look personality they just see boobs alot easier. But after the boobs, if the girl cant carry a conversation and is high maintance and all that, I think they will tire of her pretty quick. And yea, maybe they'll still look at boobs as a starting point but in the end, the girl with the good heart gets the guy for keeps

Answer 4

Most guys don't realize that beauty is only skin deep until they mature a little bit, some guys like some meat on the bones type girls, at least heavier girls aren't phony like some of the popular girls are, this is not true in all cases but in some.
A little something for the guys to remember, the more meat the more heat, and you don't have to shake the sheets to find them!

Answer 5

Because looks are deceiving. A girl can be super pretty but terrible on the inside and yet guys still fall in love with her. Personally I think guys should look for characteristics but it's also nice to have someone good-looking right?

Answer 6

skinny girls feel a lot better when they lay on top of you, and men are primarily concerned with physical attributes because of a thing called testosterone, you will probably never understand this because your testosterone levels are miniscule compared to most any male, if you're plump though you probably shouldn't worry about being skinny because you probably look right, just try to shape yourself better, you can be either skinny or voluptuous, and for a long term i pick voluptuous because there's a little bit more to love

Answer 7

i'm a length 5-6, yet i do no longer evaluate myself anorexic or something. I actual have somewhat tummy. i think of the considerable component is that the female is captivating on the interior, too. There are billions of adult males interior the international, some are going to love skinny women folk, some are going to love plump women folk, some are going to love great women folk, and so on. the ladies folk interior the image seems sturdy....properly-known weight.

Answer 8

Not really. I look at both and I don't criticise plump girls. I think inner beauty is important.

Answer 9

Sorry, I've answered this to other people and I'll answer it again.

Getting beyond the obvious fact that fit women look better--

I take care of my body. I watch what I eat, and do some type of exercise just about every day. It makes me healthier and also makes me more attractive to women. I eat less and run more if I start gaining weight. Sure I fluctuate, but I've never weighed more than 180. It's a lot of work, but it's respecting the body God gave me and taking care of it. I expect the same for my partner.

I don't want to date heroin-anorexia models, that's disgusting. But I want to go out with women who take care of themselves. And to me, being obese is like chain-smoking--it says you don't take care of your body. It's not like you're in a minority of "overweight people" that I dislike. Every person has the capacity to be a fit person or an overweight person. It's all about willpower. I lost 15 pounds over 3 months - during the Thanksgiving-Christmas-New Years holidays. Why? I realized I was getting pudgy. How? Watching what I ate and exercising more. No special fad diets, just pure willpower.

And if you're overweight, it means you don't have the willpower, and you've never made that decision to properly take care of yourself. It's like chain-smoking, alcoholism, drug abuse, or being a boring person. ALL of these can be fixed. ALL of them can be changed. But if you have a problem like this, it means that you don't have your life together yet, and there will be issues if I go out with you. And my idea of a good date is often physical activity - tennis, skiing, biking, running. If you're overweight, I probably can't do that with you.

On the other hand, you really don't have to already lose the weight to be attractive to me. If you've figured it out, if you get it, if you're taking the effort to get into shape, that's actually very sexy to me, even if you're still double your normal weight. Because it means you have a strong personality, you understand yourself, and you're working to improve yourself. Even on a physical level, I can imagine what you'll look like in a few months.

So my advice to you is to just break through whatever psychological barriers you have to getting in shape (not just losing weight, but getting fit) and do it. Tell your mother you need to stop eating her huge helpings of food and desserts. Watch the stinking pop! You can drink water and eat a bag of chips, and still have fewer calories than a 20 oz Coke. Eat vegetables and fruits for snacks. And walk, run, play volleyball, do yoga - SOMETHING for exercise. Then you'll feel better about yourself, be getting fit, lose some weight, and really everything in your life WILL get better. And you'll start attracting guys. When you're still fat but losing weight, just bring up your fitness program. Suddenly their interest level will rise.

Anybody can do it. The question is, do you want it badly enough?

Answer 10

I think you are putting yourself in the wrong pasture. Not all men like skinny women. Dough McClure has a song called turkey leg woman where he describes how he prefers larger women. These men are out there. Keep looking and always keep yourself looking good for your size, makeup, proper fitting clothes and carry yourself with confidence, you will find your man.

Answer 11

Men generally are lustful animals and would usually prefer meat over skin and bones unless they are teeny boppers looking for small demure young things and looking cute. Only skinny girls qualify to wear that cute litte short, fully gathered skirt!