I dated who is now my best friend for about 2.5 years. We been apart for about 2 years and are still close. I still love her, i want to move on but really cant emotionaly let go. There is a girl in one of my college classes that i like alot and she may like me, im not sure, should i spend my time with my friend or go after someone new?
thanks....
2006-09-21 16:06:20 · 10 answers · asked by djc2232 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with someone new. You need the friend for support in your quest for more tail.
2006-09-21 16:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the new girl, myself. You've already tried your friend and you both seem to feel more comfortable as friends. So, leave it ride and move on. In the mean time, you'll find out a little more about your friend.... (You'll see what I mean)
Have Fun!!
2006-09-21 23:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by tinamia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to form a proper bond with someone new if you are still emotionally invested in someone else. Work it through with the best friend and decide where your relationship stands before dragging a third party (new girl) into this situation.
2006-09-21 23:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by blondambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think you should do is, ask the girl out! and if you really love your best friend and she loves you then you guys will find out cuz when you start dating the new girl then all her old feelings will come rushing back to her!
2006-09-21 23:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to dsay it but sometimes you just have to let go! I know it hurts but 've been there.... and if you go back then it's only gonna end even worse than before. So is it really worth hurting worse to have a few weeks or months with her?
2006-09-21 23:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you really want to do. If you're not sure what you want to do, it doesn't hurt to get to know this new girl in order to make a more informed decision later!
2006-09-21 23:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really up to you. i mean there's a possiblity that you can keep both or you can lose both and that wouldn't be good. but do what your heart tells you. i mean i know that sounds so basic and yea but i mean it's the truth.
2006-09-21 23:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with your friend man coz you know her better.
2006-09-21 23:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with you new friend, because you are no sure what do you want, so when you spend time with you new friend is when you really no what do you want''' (SORRY FOR MY SPELLING!!!!)
2006-09-21 23:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by veronica m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
new girl
2006-09-21 23:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋