what happans if u have been with someone for a long time 10+years , and now you are not jeleous of him anymore? what does that mean when u use to be the jeleous type???
2006-09-21 15:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by Eva Daniel Rn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it mean you have more respect for yourself and you trust him
more...or maybe you just don't care.
beware of the man who drive us to do stupid thing
because their not worth it
respect yourself because jealousy is not a compliment
apple
2006-09-21 16:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I tink its ok… Because maybe when you have been with him for a very long time… you have built up that trust with him so whatever he does to you that made you jealous before doesn’t make that same impact on you anymore… because you know how he/she is like when you are around or when you are not there... you know he/she can be trusted and truthful to you... so i think that is why you dont feel jealous of him anymore... because you trust him and dont suspect anything that he is hiding or keeping from you... that is what i think... its normal and its a good thing...
2006-09-21 23:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is one of the forms that fear takes, and it is fear, not hate, which is love's true opposite. You no longer believe in fear's guidance, but in love's, and this is new to you; for you probably still believe that without jealousy there can be no love.
However, just the opposite is true. For we do not need pain to know happiness, but we do need happiness to know pain. You use to know pain, but you no longer need it anymore. For you have known love, and love is an infinitely better feeling.
2006-09-21 23:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it means that you have been with this person for enough time to get you to trust them. You used to feel the need to get jealous because you were insecure in your relationship, and now you feel safe in said relationship and you trust this person to stay true.
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-21 23:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a good thing in a relationship. Jealousy is a selfish, mean destructive thing.
2006-09-21 23:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it means that it has come to the point in your relationship that you are finally comfortable and let your gaurd down. Dont question it for now, enjoy it.
Good luck
2006-09-21 23:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you grew up and that you no longer feel the need to be childish.. That's a good thing.. Many people unfortunately dont ever do that...
2006-09-21 23:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you finally realize that he isn't going to cheat on you. Sometimes it takes a long time to reach that trustworthiness in your partner.
2006-09-21 23:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not be insecure anymore...how about that? or, maybe you are not attracted to this person any longer and this is the first sign...it happens to alot of people.
2006-09-21 23:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by s h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is crap, what u need to think about is if u love him, love has nothing in it that says u need to be jealous. love IS love, just that nothing more.
2006-09-21 23:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by emmarck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋