I think my boyfriend is hiding something. Wither its another girl or a secret or something. its a long story of why I feel this way, but what do I do?!?! I dont want to invade his privacy or go throw his email or things. HELP!!
2006-09-21 15:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop stressing.If there is something he feels you need to know he'll tell you eventually.If it's something bad you'll figure it out.Until then you'll just drive yourself nuts w/ suspicions and place undo stress on your relationship.
2006-09-21 15:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship it's not about snooping around. You should have trust in you boyfriend and if you trust him...don't worry about it, let him know that you feel like somethings going wrong with him and ask if he's willing to talk about it.and remember what ever is done in the darkness will come to light.
2006-09-21 22:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with your gut feeling on it and confront him, tell him you know he's hiding something but that he needs to tell you for the sake of your relationship, but you need to make sure your prepared to hear the worst ... don't sneak around looking at emails or invade his privacy ... that would be wrong.
2006-09-21 22:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretty, trust your gut. Ask him to open up, tell him all your feelings, and if you don't get an answer, get out of the relationship. You don't need proof, there's a lack of trust. That's a good enough reason to call it quits.
2006-09-21 22:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you u think he is hiding something he probably is. After all you should know how he acts by now..Ask him and if he acts weird again then you know something is up.Get rid of him before he gets rid of u
2006-09-21 22:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were to go throw his email, how far do you think you could through it?
2006-09-21 22:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by newt_peabody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal to have a 'little' paranoia in the beginnings of a relationship.
2006-09-21 22:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is no trust you should consider leaving. Whether your suspicions are true or not doesn't matter.
2006-09-21 22:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by TexasRed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a close relationship, you should be able to talk to him about it and if he doesnt say anything, it means either hes got a problem or there is someone else
2006-09-21 22:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by nomee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well confront hm with your proof and thn go from there
2006-09-21 22:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋