thats a stupid question! u shouldnt be messing with a married man...shame on both u.
2006-09-21 15:57:15
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answered by mr_fury666 3
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That's horsesh*t...sorry to be so blunt sweetheart but you will always be woman #2 no matter what he says. Cut him off and find someone who isn't attatched. This relationship is going nowhere. And do you really think you are in love with the guy? Are you only confusing feelings of love for the attention and affection he gives you when you are together? Loving someone is everything...would you lay your life on the line for this man??? Something to ponder.....
2006-09-21 22:39:46
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answered by WonderTwit 6
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Really long advice but i put my heart into it:
we have all went through some experiences because of love and from one woman to another you have to ask your self
1. if it's really worth it
2. shouldn't having someone in my life that love me bring sheer happiness
3. shouldn't i be respected and regarded as important to my mate. because trust me, respect goes a looong way. for example being someone secret lover under these circumstances means u have to continually bear with being humbled. come on. don't u want to share your love for this man to the world, to the people that matters.
ask for your respect sweetie, ask for your identity as a strong woman. but in my opinion, and i'm sorry to say this but this guy
could leave his wife if he wanted to but chose not to. he is making u out to be an a** whether he sees it or not and it's time u see it yourself. trust me i understand how u feel.
my last advice: spend some time away from him, no phone calls, no contact what ever and try rationalising it with your head and not your heart. and be true to yourself
2006-09-21 23:05:45
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answered by Rissa P 1
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Now that's just crazy...didn't you see waiting to exhale! You are his plaything, his extracurricular activity. The same way he said I do he can say I don't. Men leave every day what makes him so different?...I'll tell you what, no matter what he says he still has feelings for his wife and he knows that what he is doing is WRONG and that he is already with the woman he should be with his WIFE. You would do your self good to remember the golden rule(Do unto others...)
2006-09-21 22:47:32
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answered by onedzire27 2
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If he wanted to leave her he would....no excuses...he may well love you but your are not his wife...move onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.... why did you get involved with a married man in the first place..he has commited to somebody else...
2006-09-21 22:43:53
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answered by Lynne B 4
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girl just leave him. your just the other woman. im pretty sure he told his wife things like that before they gotten married. its not cool to be with a married man. sure, he might say he loves you, take care of you, etc. but at the end. you will always be 2nd when it comes to his wife.
2006-09-21 23:11:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Hey, try thinking of it this way:
Let's say he divorces the wife and you and him get married...
Who's to say that you won't become his next ex after so long...? How long before YOU get replaced...? Think about it...
Break it off... Move on... Find your own man... There are plenty of the unattached variety out there... Make a dream worth living come true...
2006-09-21 22:43:24
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answered by KnowhereMan 6
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Truth is there is no such thing as cant , its more like doesn't want to. He's comfortable w/things the way they are. I'M sure he loves you but remember not so long ago he loved someone so much he married her.. his wife. no sugar coating. don't allow yourself to be caught in something so life altering as this. you deserve better.
2006-09-21 22:58:34
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answered by peachy 2
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Girl,wake up he will never leave her. And even if it happened how could you ever trust that he would not do to you what he did to her? Good luck find a single man
2006-09-21 22:40:01
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answered by tracytracyspikes 4
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No, can leaver her but doesn't.
You're in love with him and he tells you he's in love with you.
You make a great toy for him I'm sure, but he's not going to leave his wife. He's still married because he wants to be. Sorry.
2006-09-21 22:40:03
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answered by answersBeta2.1 3
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Wake up and smell the coffee, this guy is using you for sex, and he wants to eat the whole cake. He is having the time of his life, having two women around, you deserve better, dump the scumbag. Best of Luck!
2006-09-21 22:58:11
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answered by maury3222 2
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