When you are feeling depressed, like the world is over, and you don't want to talk to anyone. When you feel like complete crap, and you just want to sleep all day. Even when you might feel like ending it all. What is there a guy can do, to make you happy or feel better. Or what he can at least try and do?
2006-09-21 15:35:15 · 19 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has nothing to do with a breakup. Just when you feel like sh*t.
2006-09-21 15:35:49 · update #1
My fiance usually just talks to me. He's silly, and that cheers me up more than anything. Also, just the soft way he touches my cheek and kisses the tears means a ton.
Just be there for her.
2006-09-21 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by janelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take a hot bath, listen to relaxing music, eat some chocalate i watch horror movies because if there is someone pissing me off i visualize they are being eaten by zombies and it makes me feel better. I know it sounds strange but works for me. I punch a bag for good measure. I go to the beach watch the sunset. I go outside and look at the moon and love to feel the wind on my face. I get out and do whatever it is to make me happy. I take happy pills if i get too depressed lol just kidding no pills will take away the problems. I spend time with my sons and take them places. I like to draw and paint. I do whatever i have to make it better
2006-09-21 15:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by firey_spirit_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat icecream. maybe you can watch the Three Stooges, call a friend. Write out your feelings. Forcing yourself to go out and see faces. play music that is upbeat, search for jokes online. give yourself a make over. or find some stuff in the fridge to give yourself a facial. Scream at the top of your lungs, F you world.
hey sorry if I misunderstood the question. Well if you feel like crap yourself oneday then do one of the above.
2006-09-21 15:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Evey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what always helps, well most of the time, chocolate!!! Chocolate can cure lots of things, oh and cookie dough, but you might think thats a little disgusing, and a nice hot bath with bubbles. That make me happy.
Good luck and i hope you start feeling better!
2006-09-21 15:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in this situation a lot of times, and i can't really say theres any one thing a guy could do for me. i guess to just be there if i wanted to talk or give me space if i needed it. but just so that i know he's there for me...that's really all that counts. maybe if i started to feel a lil better he could take me somewhere where we could just relax and stuff. that's the best i have!hope this helped!
2006-09-21 15:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing a guy can do in a time like that is just talk to me and let me know every thing is going to be okay the next best thing is to take me shopping
2006-09-21 15:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What used to always make me feel so comforted was when me and my now ex would lay down real close together. My head on his chest, his arm around me. Nothing sexual, just being close and feeling like he was there just for me.
2006-09-21 15:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cook her a meal and buy her some chocolates or flowers. make her feel like shes the best in the world!
2006-09-21 15:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by nomee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long, hot, bubble bath while he washes me, relaxes me.
A nice massage from head to toe.
Just holding me.
Brushes my hair.
Makes me a little snack and feeds it to me.
Cry WITH me, show me understanding.
Take me on a walk, enjoy the scenery, nature.
2006-09-21 15:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them to leave me alone for a bit for me to calm down and when i was feeling a bit better. just cuddle and have a bit of fun, muck around
2006-09-21 15:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋