2006-09-21 15:32:29 · 15 answers · asked by l a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You let "time" take care of it...
Nobody said that it was easy and there are no promises that you won't go through it, again. But you use this "time" to reevaluate the relationship. Remember the good and the bad. But determine what went wrong to end it, learn a lesson from it, and each day, it'll get easier.
You have to love yourself first, to be able to love someone else. Find peace within, let the pain and anger subside...(KNOW) that EVERYBODY has gone through this very thing and lived through it, and then you will be ready to "move on"......
2006-09-21 15:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time. it takes time to heal a broken heart. at times like this, you need a good support system like your family and friends. go out and do something with your friends, that way you don't have too much time on your hands. when you have too much time that you start thinking about the past which will make you eventually depress and all that. when my ex and i broke up, it took me a good 2 years before i could even date anyone. i was that brokenhearted. when i found out he had a new girlfriend, that was even harder. i cried and cried and cried but eventually got over it. so, it takes alot of time to truly heal from a broken heart. my ex and i were together for 12 years.
2006-09-21 15:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't... You don't expect yourself to "move on" until you've given yourself a time of grieving, a time for processing the loss of the relationship, AND the loss of all the dreams/desires that were attached to the relationship. You need to accept that you're not the same person as you were before the heartbreak, and you need to give yourself time and opportunties to get to know who you are now. Be patient. Be gentle with yourself. Get help if necessary. Sit in your darkness and, with time and attention & listening to your heart, you'll "move on" when you're ready.
2006-09-21 15:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I dnt wan to move on but I have no choice.
LIfe is hard that way but its only becuz we make it hard.
This pass week has been hell but today reality hit me and I feel good.
I realize I felt the pain, I learn from it and i got through it.
I ran on thursday.
I drew on wednesday.
I wrote on tuesday.
I slept on monday.
now i also did bad things like cut myself and smoke pot.
Let time take you wit it.
Follow its motion.
Dont stay behind because you will find yourself trapped inside yourself.
Tell yourself its over even if the pain is too great to comprehend.
Remember there are people wit worse life than ours.
We learn from the suffering and pain.
Remember tomorrow could be the best day of ur life.
good luck.
jenn
14
cali.
2006-09-21 15:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good cry and get it over with.. Life goes on...believe me when I say this...It's hard at first. There is nothing you can do about it. However, you can try taking up a new hobby or pick up where you left off on an old one. Get together with your friends...Go out. The hurt will still be there, but eventually it starts to fade...Trust me.
Why get depressed over it?
2006-09-21 15:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by tinamia1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with your other freinds and I truly believe that in time you will find another lots of times it takes another to take your mind of whoever has broken your heart. In the mean time please take care. Time will heal all wounds.
2006-09-21 15:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by tracytracyspikes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have NO CONTACT at all. That is the first thing to do. Do not call, leave messages, no e-mail and don't ask a mutual friend about this person. Then, get involved in new areas of taking a class, a new sport etc. It is up to you.....all up to you!
2006-09-21 15:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound dumb, but only your heart can answer that one for you. in my mind, its best to try and keep your mind off of that someone. incorporate yourself in other activities with friends and engage yourself with the rest of the world. love is good when its good, but can hurt like hell when its not. after time, you may come across someone else that catches your attention; you may not even have interest in dating them. however, they may be special enough to invest time and friendship in, forming a new bond and a new outlet for your heart and mind.
2006-09-21 15:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by MikE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant move on you have to take the time and go through the pain
2006-09-21 15:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry, i do experience for you, this final happened to me and that i replaced into with the guy in trouble-free terms some months, nevertheless its v difficult to enable bypass so i know what you experience the only concern to do is to distract your self and circulate on, pursuits, activities, charity, something to get your techniques off him and it will help slowly....
2016-12-12 12:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by penso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋