I have a big crush on this girl but im to nervous to talk to her. I want to write her a letter and give it to her somehow, but i dont know what to write. Any suggestions?
2006-09-21 15:12:51 · 11 answers · asked by lexington13516176 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you have a "big crush" on this girl, a "love letter" is probably not the best way to go about it. You want to start off on the right foot with her, build some type of foundation with her. Try to talk to her as a friend first. If this is the first time you're going to talk to her, it's probably best if you stay away from telling her about your "big crush" on her right away, you might scare her away. Sure she'll be flattered, but what if you're not her type? Try to find out some of her interest, what she likes in a guy, and once you've collected some, let's call it "research", you'll find that'll it will be easier to let her know how you feel. And heck, you might even find out that maybe she's not your type. Remember that liking someone is not always physical...there has to be some compatibility there. But if you decide to go with a "love letter"... make it short and don't make it seem like you can't live without her....you don't want to put the ball in her court. make sure you make it where you also have some playing time aswell. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 15:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by tweenky1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple; you don't write a letter to your crush. You walk up to her, tell her straight up to her face. Because if you write a letter and give it to her, she may go, "aww" at what you wrote, or she could always take it wrong. There is always the possibility that she is already taken. But if you tell her straight up, she'll know that you are mature and ready. If you write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to her, I don't think she'll take you as seriously.
You need to face your fears and talk to her about it. Even if she doesn't reciprocate those feelings, you'll know that you gave it a good shot. Besides, if she's not into you, she wasn't the one for you.
Good luck with everything.
2006-09-21 22:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write something sweet and lengthy a girl loves lengthy love notes from a guy. You could say I really like and would like to get to know you better and maybe become more than friends. And then just tell her she's pretty and what you like about her.
2006-09-21 22:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. A-Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becareful man most ladies doesnt like it in the written format...
I wrote my first letter for the same reason and the next day she told me that I`m justa friend....now I think its because she thinks that I dont have the guts to speak to her straight...get it??...
So my advice is not to write....just go and talk to her....whats the worst thing which could happen....she might say no...so what the heck there are plenty of other girls in this world.....atleast 9 billion of them!!!!...
2006-09-21 22:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by lynx_sl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, forget the letter..........she will think you are weird and laugh about it with her girlfriends. Until you are ready to approach her and talk, don't do the letter thing......it will make you look like a fool!
2006-09-21 22:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart,
I love you at the moment I saw you. I think you are simply super. You are adorable. You are my sweet little angle. Trust me, gyal, a beautiful world is waiting for you out there.
2006-09-21 22:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I give u the ideas then she will be falling in love with me/my ideas.. not you.... so just be yourself write what you think best to express urself and ur love.... u should be good to go.
2006-09-21 22:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Galactic_Explorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell her that you're interested in being friends and getting to know her but don't tell her your feelings yet because she might get freaked about the fact that you guys barely even know each other
2006-09-21 22:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Baby Dory*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
writting letters is so outdated...just give ger a call and date her
2006-09-21 22:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by lamlieth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what you have to do is try to figure out what to put in it than find out where her locker is [if you got them] than put it in there and hope she gets it
2006-09-21 22:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋