If you are in a relationship,is it good to have sex befor marriage even if one party demands it please help me
2006-09-21 15:12:15 · 24 answers · asked by ebenezer k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you buy a car with out test driving it? Buy bacon without lifting the flap and take a peep? It's OK to take a test drive just to make sure that there are no bugs in the works.
2006-09-21 15:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Not if one party is feeling pressured into having sex.
I guess the whole 'no sex before marriage' depends on your religious views/upbringing, but if this is an issue that one party strongly believes in then the other should either accept it & be willing to comply if they really do want to spend the rest of their life together with the first person. If they don't agree then maybe they are not the right person, having the same values in life is very important in any relationship, especially marriage & being prepared to compromise or make sacrifices for the other person is key to how much you really love & want to be with the other person.
Personally I approve of living together before marriage as that in my opinion is the hardest adjustment anyone has to make, especially if you are used to being independent & living the single life (not even talking about sex here, just whether you love the other person enough to tolerate their imperfections & annoying habits & EVERYONE HAS THEM). I know that this doesn't necessarily help if religion disapproves of living together but at the end of the day sex is only one part of a relationship (a great one but not everything) so it's good to be sure you're solid on the other stuff for when you get old & wrinkly !!!!
2006-09-21 16:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mari C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No person should demand sex before marriage. If a person is demanding that you engage in sex before you marry, that should give you a "red flag" that this is not the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, that it is not a healthy relationship to be in. If someone really loves you, they will wait for sex until after marriage. Please don't give in to any demands. The person, if they truly are in love with you, will wait and God will bless you and your marriage for waiting.
I hope this helps. Please take care and think carefully.
2006-09-21 15:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by son-shine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if only one party demands for sex before marriage, then the relationship isn't right! relationship isn't about sex at all!
personally, i think sex is so sacred that it should be done within a marriage.
dump that guy, get someone else, someone who respect who you are.
2006-09-21 16:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is 'demanding' it, you need to run, not walk, away from this person. This is not a healthy relationship and PLEASE
do not consider marriage to someone like this. Sex is something God created as a blessing in marriage.
2006-09-21 15:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 kinds of answer: in case you want her: then merely ask her why and if doesnt wanna then dont or wait till she is of the same opinion. per chance she is bonded by making use of her households love. she is wondering abt her kinfolk. merely ask her kindly in case you decide on her for sex: then leave her. because she will be ready to get a lot more advantageous acceptable guy than you. bypass carry out with some nude female who likes one in each of those stuff. she has achieved nothin incorrect to you to have this humiliation. and if she is from an outstanding kinfolk she will be ready to even attempt comitting suicide like my cousine sister tryed
2016-11-23 14:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by thweatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people now have sex on there first night (aaaug) i recently spoke to someone who is religious theve been dating for 1 and a half years , they get married next week she was so excited and nervous about having sex , i think it was so special (how it should be ). i wonderd if she would like what she sees though, then again if you truly love someone it shouldnt matter(they can teach each other. im sure shell fill me in .
2006-09-21 19:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough then yes. You got to know what it is like before a wedding night and you need to be around the block a llittle bit come on. It never hurts to give a little Have fun!!!!
2006-09-21 15:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by creature 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you should have sex before marrige, but not if it is forced upone you. That or if it puts you into a position that you are not comfortable with. There is no rush and if your being forced to have sex its not worth it.
2006-09-21 15:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Trouble waitin 2 happen!!! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if she didn't have a boy friend before me so i don't have sex before marraige but may be some sort of it as a polite kiss only to test her but not to satisfy me.
2006-09-21 15:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋