Ok here's the deal.... me and my ex-boyfiend broke up about 3-4 weeks ago. After we broke up I was really hurt because I was in love with him. Even though i was hurt, it didn't hurt so much until I found out that he broke up with me to go out with another female. To really finish it off, he started going out with her the day after me and im broke up!!!! Even though we had already broken up, he tried talking to me over my space. He said we were still friends but he sure didn't act like it!!! Now I really wanna talk to him but i don't know how to start a conversation with him especially after i didn't write back to the messages he wrote to me. I need some serious help and quick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 15:02:59 · 12 answers · asked by ~*Baby Dory*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be friends w/ him. He's a pig. It wouldn't be so bad except he showed no respect for you by having another girl when you were still in love w/ him and heartbroken and maybe even still thinking you could get back together. I wouldn't be friends, not yet anyway. It's much too soon for that pig to get to enjoy your company again.
2006-09-21 15:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know how much you' were hurt, let him know what damage he's done, and how much respect you've lost for him, if he can show he understands all that, and still wants to retain a friendship, maybe it's worth it, no-one just stops a relationship, but you have to set up new boundries when this happens.
All my ex-girlfriends and still good friends of mine, we may not hav been so great as lovers, but found we were great friends. Won't work for everybody, and you need to accept this may not work for you, but if you don't ty, how would you know?
2006-09-21 15:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by aussiegeezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not any further in love with him, believe, you look like you're not any further bodily attracted to him. i imagine you're merely slightly jealous of the particular undeniable reality that there's a woman who's "obsessed" with him. like you've stated before, he did lose his virginity to you and for some reason that has consequences on jealous thoughts- no longer love. that's for confident, you've understand him for thus long and that i imagine that's genuinely a "we've achieved merely about each little thing jointly to three extent the position i changed into the first human being who he has in reality achieved each little thing with and hastily some next obsessive, un-attracted new female comes into his existence.” It’s in reality only a wonder and that i imagine you should offer up hooking up with him and discover yet another guy. I understand completely what you advise and it truly is not LOVE. That’s precisely what i presumed- i changed into incorrect. It’s really going to be confusing to move on; little doubt about that, yet you want to. someplace deep interior he feels the exact same way as you do, yet he’s transferring on, proper?
2016-11-23 14:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a friendship with him it is only going to make it harder for you to get over him. I think you should just steer clear of him and try to move on with your life.
2006-09-21 15:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na dont even talk to him. what 4 so he can go out wit u and hurt u again
2006-09-21 15:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by george c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not write to him, because (if) you have feelins for him and thats what your thinking about, not the fact that he hurt you
2006-09-21 15:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Ellie ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. There is no way you will be able to put aside your feelings to be "friends". It will be easier for you to get over him if you keep your distance
2006-09-21 15:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...Sounds like he is just trying to keep both you girls and get away with it!! Don't trust him you are just bound to get hurt again.
2006-09-21 15:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should still be friends!!!!! but if he dumped you for another girl, that is seriously wrong. how much do u like him? if you still like him, remain friends, because one day it might be more!!
2006-09-21 15:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by nomee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no i am friends with my ex and he is verbal abusing me like crap no i think you should cut all ties with him plus he only want friends so he can continue to sleep with you like mine is doing
2006-09-21 15:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋