the note i leave at times .i have only done this 3 times out of the whole six years together. he told me to stop with the notes and tell him want i want to say. i was so hurt . i thought that it was romantic. do u think it was romantic and loving thing to do?
2006-09-21 14:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by lady-t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definately, but then again I'm a woman. Men have a totally different prospective on things ... they're just weird I guess. We're the normal ones right? .... what ever normal is. Anyway, so I would rather do what he would find romantic, which would probably include me in a skimpy outift and posing in his bedroom or cooking in the nude. They always appreciate breakfast in bed ... or anything that you do out of complete consideration of what he likes. My ex used to think that watchin the game and chuggin beers with him was romantic. Not ideal for me, but it worked for him. Had fun doin it anyway though.
To answer your question again ... yes definately, notes in the bed are romantic ... unless I was like dead tired from a long day of working numbers at my desk, and I just literally crash on the bed to find a note in between my heavy head and my pillow.
2006-09-22 05:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have varying opinions on what is romantic. Your boyfriend is probably NOT the romantic type, and thus doesn't appreciate the thought that you were thinking of him. Just remember, that if you were trying to do something nice FOR him, then you should do things that he would like. An example. If my girlfriend went through the trouble of cooking a romantic meal at home...and made some vegetarian meal.... i'll be honest.... WHAT THE HELL IS SHE THINKING!?!? lol. I am a meat eater! If you want to do something nice for someone...just remember it is FOR them... not necessarily for you. If its for you...then it isn't romantic....it's kinda selfish? So anyhow... I'd just find out what he DOES appreciate... and try to do that. Who knows...maybe its something like suprising him with tickets to a football game! he might .... lol....find that romantic! (not likely...but he would appreciate that you did that for him!)
2006-09-21 15:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw that's sweet!! Hes mean for saying that!! I write my boyfriend of 2yrs little notes and he loves them! he keeps them in a little box he says hes gonna show are kids how sweet mommy is! Maybe write some little coupon ones like: redeem this note for a sexy striptease or something along those lines! then see if hes not begging for a note that says something romantic! i think your a sweety for doin that! he should be happy! ;-)
2006-09-21 15:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by JESSICAluvzMIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it was romantic and loving! However, after what he said, if I were you, I would never leave another note! His loss.
2006-09-21 15:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS a romantic gesture. My hubby enjoys the notes I leave him..... Your boyfriend- STILL after 6 years!!!???? Something else is wrong here....
2006-09-21 14:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem rather romantic of you but maybe its just not his style, maybe he just want sto here it from you , I think its romantic but he may think is corny or something, its a nice thing to do though =)
2006-09-21 15:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he didn't like the notes, you should just tell him, I think telling him that you love him when you feel it is better than leaving notes.
2006-09-21 14:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty sweet. We all have different things that we like though, so maybe expirement with other ways to show you love him?
2006-09-21 15:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by la_z_boi68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's creepy.
2006-09-21 15:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by igɳo★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋