just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy.
2006-09-21 14:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two have nothing in common, I'm afraid there's not much hope for the relationship. You can try one more date but DO SOMETHING rather than "hang out." Play miniature golf or bowling. Then go for pizza or something else to eat and you can talk about the golf or the bowling. Don't do a movie, it's not interactive enough.
If that second date doesn't work then you really having nothing in common and the relationship won't work. Don't even bother telling her you want her to be a gf. However, if your shared activity leads to talk of other things, maybe you CAN find out you have some things in common and plan another date together, or with a group of friends.
If you're shy you can try a group date or double date, but as before, DO Something, don't just "hang out". Talk to someone who seems more outgoing and is a member of that group of friends. Ask him/her if you can all do some activity and ask if they can arrange it.
Show an interest in her interests. Ask her more about the music she likes, books she read (you said she's a bookworm). You may not have the same interests but at least you may learn about different bands or books.
2006-09-21 14:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expand your horizons and try to get interested in some of the things she likes. She is a bookworm so take her on a date for coffee at Barnes & Noble...a book store is a place where there is something for everyone. You two can each pick a book on something that interests you and bring the book to your table to enjoy your coffee together and discuss your books! This would be a fun and casual date where you can relax and get to know each other better.
2006-09-21 14:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to develop a relationship, not just slam one together. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we had so little in common when we first got together but we found things as time progressed. It was several months before we realized we both love crosswords. Now every Sunday we have breakfast and do a crossword.
2006-09-21 15:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely ask her out again. By getting to know her better, you will most likely find 'something' that you have in common. Don't avoid your feelings, listen to them!!
2006-09-21 14:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you want her to be your gf. Just keep spending time with her and talking to her. She will like that and that will give her a chance to get to know you.
2006-09-21 14:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to ask her out , then do it. You will never know til you try.Besides opposites attract. You have nothing to lose by asking.
2006-09-21 14:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot, take her out and do something you like
2006-09-21 14:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋