I want to know why guys desire and talk about people like Paris Hilton, Beyonce to name a few but dates girls that can't compare to them, what is the point?
2006-09-21 14:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This question really made me smile. Mostly because I think that the girls I date are as good looking as the stars you mention, probably better. And it's not all about the looks. It's about finding a person you can be happy with. Looks matter, don't get me wrong, but if a girl is pretty, there isn't some scale from 1-100 on how pretty she is. But there is a scale for how nice she is, or how loving or how generous.
Imagine a girl is like a store (please don't get offended!) Prettiness is just the facade. Either it's repulsive or interesting enough to get you to go in. Once you're in, the facade doesn't matter any more. What does matter is the quality of the merchandise, the attitude of the salespeople, and perhaps price. But the facade doesn't come into play anymore. So it is with girls. If she's pretty enough for a guy to come up to her and hit on her, the quality of her looks is no longer a factor in determining whether the guy likes her or not. The issue becomes everything else about the girl.
Good luck. Some guys aren't like what I described. But many are, and I recommend you find yourself one of them.
2006-09-21 15:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all people shouldn't be treated for their looks or money,but for what they are inside.I would rather be with some one who is ugly but a good person than some one who is gorgeous but a bad person,,your looks and wealth wont last forever,but if you are a good person inside it will far out weigh the other and will last forever.if you have a snobby ***** for a girlfriend then you will have the same kind or friends ,but a good person will attract more like her and your life will be so much better and filled with happyness
2006-09-21 21:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by hekler1873 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for the personallity, I'm mostly afraid that my friends would judge me for who I'm with.
2006-09-21 21:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they up to the ladies' standards in the first place?
2006-09-21 21:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by bluezest27_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not depend on the look itself, she must have good heart good personalities ,if good look and good heart that would be perfect
2006-09-21 21:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by lamlieth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋