my friend liked a guy a lot(like crazy).. it took her 3 yrs to get over him.. and her boyfriend loved another girl.. they both knew about eachothers past but.. he still asked her out.. they have been together for one week.. today he told one of my friends that he has no feelings for her eventhough he kisses her and is always hugging her.. when they are together they look like they are so much in love with eachother..... when i asked her she said that she likes him but.. if he has no feelings for her she doesn't want to be with him.. she said that she knows that her still loves his ex.. and it has been bothering her a lot.. its not fair cause all her life she has been so sweet, kind and loving to everyone.. but there is no guy that truly loves her.. and she feels that her bf is just useing her... sometimes she feels that he doesn't care if he hurts her... and he also said that he is going to break up with her after a month.. now she wants to break up with him.. she doesn't know how to.
2006-09-21 14:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn't want to hurt him... but she wants to end it ... the problem is that she doesn't know how to tell him...
2006-09-21 14:35:49 · update #1
"I want to break up."
"I think we shouldn't see each other any more."
Don't say something like let's still be friends or it's not you,it's me. Just make it quick and simple and firm. It's like a bandaid, just rip it off.
2006-09-21 14:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur friend that this guy sounds like a playa and is so not even worth it...just dump him via email if you have to...but get rid of his sorry butt. Call him, email him, tell a friend to break up with him...anything you can think of. But if he's using her then he's too pathetic to like the dog poo from her shoes. Your right it isn't fair for guys to play and use us...but they do anyways, because they are stupid, pathetic, and (hey did I mention STUPID!!!) well not all guys are stupidly immature...I know 1 that isn't. Just tell her to dump him asap!
2006-09-21 21:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has no respect for her and enjoys using her so she need to just let go and move on there is no other way but that one so move on and be there for her he doesn't care about her feeling say good bye good luck
2006-09-21 21:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy sounds like a dope.
don't worry about his feelings--he doesn't worry about anyone else--so why bother!
2006-09-21 21:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was in her shoes i would jus go up to him and say its over because he is hurting her and he is not being real with her. so some1 should be real so it has 2 b her! if shez scared she shouldnt i know she has alot of confidence!
2006-09-21 21:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋