Well she wants a break because she thinks we're getting too serious and shes scared that if we break up we would have just been wasting time on something thats not there. We've been through a lot. When I say a lot its not to be taken lightly lol. We've decided on like a month break and if we still have feelings for each other we'll decide on what to do if we want to get "Major" on things. I'm really confused on what to do. I really don't want this break but everything was so sudden that i didn't think things through.
2006-09-21 14:24:09 · 6 answers · asked by Bandit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she wants a break because she thinks we're getting too serious and shes scared that if we break up we would have just been wasting time on something thats not there. We've been through a lot. When I say a lot its not to be taken lightly lol. We've decided on like a month break and if we still have feelings for each other we'll decide on what to do if we want to get "Major" on things. I'm really confused on what to do. I really don't want this break but everything was so sudden that i didn't think things through.
well she say she wanted a break she just asked if we should take a break. and i said yes. I dont' know why
2006-09-21 14:30:11 · update #1
Well she wants a break because she thinks we're getting too serious and shes scared that if we break up we would have just been wasting time on something thats not there. We've been through a lot. When I say a lot its not to be taken lightly lol. We've decided on like a month break and if we still have feelings for each other we'll decide on what to do if we want to get "Major" on things. I'm really confused on what to do. I really don't want this break but everything was so sudden that i didn't think things through.
well she didn't say she wanted a break she just asked if we should take a break. and i said yes. I dont' know why
2006-09-21 14:30:53 · update #2
If a girl want's a "break", it's because she is either not interested anymore, or she has someone else.
2006-09-21 14:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by CE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that it takes two people to be in a relationship and if one person for whatever reason wants out, even temporarily then there's not much you can do about it other than tell her how you feel. Let her know how important she is to you and that this decision is painful and certainly not what you would choose but if it's what she needs then, because you love her, you will support her by giving her what she needs. That sends her the message that you love her enough that you will abide by her wishes even though you don't agree with them. The fact is that you don't really have a choice if she wants the break, but it at least gives her a positive outlook on you...You also might ask her if this is just her way of saying that she wants out completely but is using this month thing as a way to try to make the break gracefully and then prepare for the answer that you don't want to hear. Hopefully it will all work in your favor. If not then know that there is someone out there who will appreciate you for who you are, if you're truly a kind and loving person.
2006-09-21 14:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by madreluvsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should have faith in the two of you....lol...tell her Harley said so!
or she may have her eye on another guy
2006-09-21 14:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the guy's name?
2006-09-21 14:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by industrialconfusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a strip club then e-mail me at bethany_1516@yahoo.com
2006-09-21 14:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by b.! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hangout with someone else she will be back
2006-09-21 14:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋