How come jerks get the girls. I've been a nice guy and always ending up being friends with girls and ntohing else. Its really frustrating seeing the girls I care for getting hurt by these assholes. What can I do to have these girls see me in a different light?
2006-09-21 14:21:24 · 24 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will get a girl, trust me. And when you do, it will probably be long term, as compared to the ones with jerks.
Since you already know a lot of girls, all you need to do is ask them out!
2006-09-21 14:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See society had us men believing that women should be put up on a pedestal, most guys would drown girls with good compliments and gifts all they're doing is giving those girls undeserved status and value. Women love challenge don't believe me ask any woman near right now and bad boys and jerks give them that challenge. Jerks and batboys value themselves and they give the women guessing and they don’t' give value they make them work for it, and the women would seek the attention from him and wonder if they could change him but once they figure him out they just move on to the next challenge.
2006-09-23 08:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by axmed_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are probably just known as 'the nice guy'. You probably aren't much of a flirt, so girls only look to you as being their good guy friend, not a boyfriend. You gotta learn how to flirt. You can be a nice guy and flirt at the same time. Girls love it when guys flirt with them, so why don't you try doing that and i am sure you will get girls faster.
2006-09-21 14:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerks get all the chicks because women love drama.Jerks bring excitement in the form of being arrogant and unpredictable."Oh my god I cant believe what this jerk is doing to me" Is what they all say but chicks love over the top, **** talking assholes because they buy into the jerks bull ****.They assume he must be worthy if he's that much trouble.Nice guys get the **** kicked out of 'em by chicks who are conditioned to chase jerks.You bore them with your respect and honesty so they go looking for someone to make their life a living hell.Then their happy
2006-09-21 14:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by The Coach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because of youth & immaturity. When you & the ladies are older, they will be sick & tired of the jerks. Then they will realize the value of a nice guy.
I was the same way. I dated lots of jerks. It actually gave me perspective, because when I met my husband, the contrast between him & the jerks was amazing! The past helped me see what a prize I had found!
It will happen to you too, just wait.
2006-09-21 14:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls think a guy that's a jerk is being a flirty guy. You're probably the guy that's the best friend in the whole wide world. Don't sweat it. You'll find that girl.
2006-09-21 14:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Catastrophic. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls go for jerks, and they only see the nice guys as friends when they get hurt so they have someone to cry to. But, when they see you as a nice guy, they'll wake up one day and come to you.
2006-09-21 14:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are attracted to guys that are jerks .. because the guys are normally really HOT and they know it.. so a girl look first its a normal think .how u look its the first thing that its noticed about u.. so the guy is hot and he is a gerk so girls sometimes dont care if the guy is a jerck.. its just to have fun with..
2006-09-21 14:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last. There might not be anything you can do to get them see you in a different light. But if you stay true to yourself and your beliefs, the right one will happen along.
2006-09-21 14:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That only happens when you're young, as women get older they tire of the jerks and start paying us nice guys much more attention.
2006-09-21 14:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋