okay, my friend zack, last year,(known him since the 4th grade) and he kinda "bugged me". then one day he told me that he bugged me b/c he liked me, the in sent hima note sayin i didn't like him so he kinda got REALLY quiet and didn't talk to me much since but i feel guilty, what should i do?? HELP
2006-09-21 14:18:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people, i need more help. he's nioce but i don't like him! he's my friend! i can't just talk to him! my other friends said that he's kind of a dork. what shioould i do?!?!?!
2006-09-21 14:28:00 · update #1
sorry about typos!!!i'm kinda fast and make mistakes but i'm haning in there! thanx 4 ur advice!!!
2006-09-21 14:30:45 · update #2
Lots of guys bug girls because they really like them. The thing is, you don't have to like someone because they like you. You have no obligation to. If he is a nice guy (for someone else) you might tell him you are sorry for the way you put it. You just don't like him for a boy friend. You might even want to introduce him to a friend of yours that could be attracted to him. She might be so appreciative that she later introduces you to someone you think is WOW!
2006-09-21 14:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by choo-Choos Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to put it this way. What do u like in a man. Does he fit into those qualities? Is he nice? Funny? A good person? If so honey u better go get him. If not say im sorry for hurting ur feelings but i just dont think of u like that. For now at least
2006-09-21 21:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by 1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that you are still willing to be friends with him. i mean you never know, one day you might just end up likeing him. he just didn't know any other way to get your attention. i made the mistake of yelling at a guy who begged me all the time and he ended up hating me, then i found out it was because he liked me. what sucked is thast i ended up likeing him, but he wanted nothing to do with me.
don't make the same mistake i did. and even if you don't end up liking him i gurantee that he will be a VERY good friend. you never want to lose those. no matter thier gender.
2006-09-21 21:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Guitar_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize.
2006-09-21 21:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by CallMeDigitalBob 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pssssh sux for him, there are ppl ur gonna like and ppl u wont, if u dont like sum1 u cant just go out w/ them because u feel guilty. u tol him the truth and he should move on
2006-09-21 21:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by polygirrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you have considered him your friend if he "bugged" you?
You should feel guilty. don't act upon things unless you are willing to take the consequences.
2006-09-21 21:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by CE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you wanna be freinds with him--tell him that! if you don't just be nice but keep your distance and time will take care of things. No sense letting him think there is a chance with you -if there is not! Life is hard sometimes-but he will get over it!
2006-09-21 21:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him ur sorry and say that u dont see him that way.. im pretty sure that he willstill talk to u if he is really ur friend
2006-09-21 21:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't like him that was the right thing to say. He will get over it as soon as he finds another girl to like.
2006-09-21 21:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah learn to type. i can tell you are young. why don't you grow up and mature a little and talk face to face rather than talking to eachother through note passing.. that is deffinately extremely elementary.
2006-09-21 21:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by kristy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋