I know that women hate a lot of nicey nicey wimpy guys. I talked to a guy on this and he told me he just feels bad when he acts like a bad boy just to attract a female. He said he doesn't feel comfortable treating a lady like that. However, I talked to the female who he likes and said she wants a guy who's going to put her in her place and make her feel like she's second to him and that turns her on. I told him about that and he still didn't want to treat her like that! I'm confused with this guy and I'm confused with the female too! First off all, he likes the girl a lot so he should try to do what he can do to get that attraction going...IF he wants to be with her. She's told me to tell him what she looks for in a man and he can't even put a little masculinity in himself to be that man. Now, with the female she's kind of on some I want to be pimped sh*t! Anyway, I'm like yo, I thought you wanted a man to respect you and love you and all that. She said screw that I need a MAN! WTF???!
2006-09-21 14:13:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because she is a scumbag and does not deseve to be treated right and you would never be able to trust her anyway so i would treat her like **** and get some pussy and dump the ************
2006-09-21 14:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree completely. Women have themselves to blame largely for the fact that so many men think of women as posessions because we set our standards so low. I think on some level we want to fix things and what better project than a human? But i gotta say, having dated bad boys and hated how i was treated, its the most ringing of endorsements for nice guys. I married a "good guy" and cant imagine my life with a bad boy. Look at it like this: any girl dumb enough to turn down a nice guy for a bad boy is not a girl you wanna be with anyway.
2016-03-27 01:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been brought up to treat women with respect and mom was treated the was a women is supposed to be treated with love and respect. Evidently she has been brought up in a household that mom was not treated that nice whether it was by dad or boyfriend, granddad, or someone male in her life so she thinks that it is normal. If he really cares and likes this girl then he needs to show her that a real man does not treat a women like trash.
If she wants someone to treat her like that on purpose then he needs to find someone who will love him for him not anything else.
2006-09-21 14:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by blestbrenfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is admirable that he doesn't ant to pretend to be somethign he isn't what he needs to do now is follow throught with it. He needs to be himself and find someone who can appreciate him the way he is.
As for the young woman. Personally, I think her view is twistwed for lack of a better word. Women like her is one of the reasons why some men think they have the right to treat us as they please.
Tell your friend not to waste his time and that a woman who knows what she's worth is out there looking for a guy like him.
Don't worry that wasn't an offer or anything b/c I'm not looking but there are other like-minded women who are.
Good Luck!
2006-09-21 14:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that wants you to treat her like dirt has serious issues and you should probably steer clear.
There's a difference between being assertive and being a pompous git. I love men that are confident and at times assertive, but if a guy ever tried to treat me like dirt, he'd be gone!!
2006-09-21 14:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by CE S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't want to pretend to be something that he isn't. If he just keeps being true to himself he will find a good woman that wants to be treated good.
And to me, a kind gentle man is a REAL MAN!!!
:)
2006-09-21 14:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. I know I don't want a wimp!! But I don't want no fake @$$ thug wannabe either. Just be real!! Be yourself!! The right woman will come to you one day!! Just watch! ;)
2006-09-21 14:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't pretend you are something that you are not, he could pretend to be bad and she couldn't pretend to want nice. Enough said. Eventually she'll want nice and he will still be nice and it will all work out.
2006-09-21 14:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy probably has mommy issues and the girl daddy issues.
2006-09-21 14:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by nathan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it they are nice
so being bad is contrary to their principles
when there is no need to be bad
matter of fact they feel bad...
2006-09-21 14:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by DOCTOR.KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋