Ok I am 17 and still havent had my first kiss or a boyfriend. and from the looks of it thats not happening unless I just kiss any ramdom guy that I dont feel for. But I dont want to do that I want it to be real. What should I do?
2006-09-21 14:01:34 · 26 answers · asked by babystuff6262005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am calm but people think I am too calm and everyone is waiting for me to have a boyfriend. I try to worry about my education but I feel this emptiness. And my sister make fun of me and call me an uncooked ham.
2006-09-21 14:04:39 · update #1
All my friends had their first kiss when they were 14 and younger thats what makes me feel even worse. And everytime I have the opportunity I say no becuz I just aint feelin the person.
2006-09-21 14:11:20 · update #2
Relax. Chill.
You're still young and have plenty of time to work on yourself and to *be* yourself. :) This is what attracts people, not being so desperate. Just find things to do to occupy your time that keep you happy, and in being happy others will find you more attractive.
Because few things in life attract love like love itself, and if you love what you are doing....see what I mean?
And remember. You have all the time in the world, technically you really aren't even old enough to seriously pursue such things anyway, so why not spend the time working on yourself so that when the time comes you *will* be ready?
(now if you find yourself asking the same sort of question at *40* like *I* have on occasion, *then* there's a problem....so remember, you're not a loser. It could *always* be worse.)
2006-09-21 14:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bradley P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, you feel like a loser because you're 17 and you haven't even had so much as a first kiss. But all around you are girls your age that are on baby #2, eh? You are SO NOT a loser!
Sweetie, you just keep holding out for the one that is "real". Oh sure, theres gonna be haters that make fun of you, but in reality they are TOTALLY JEALOUS!
Keep doing whatever you are doing--there's a guy out there for someone as special as you.
2006-09-21 21:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first your calling yourself a loser is not going to help...if you havent found the right guy well thats not your fault...i mean take it this way atleast wen you have your first kiss it wont be a immature kiss like a tap kiss from a crush in school. it would be a real kiss. just be patient. every single person will find some1 for them selves. so dont worry focus on your edacation and when you least expect it you'll have your first kiss and find some1 for yourself. dont listen to nobody...this will sound corny but follow your heart and wait because if you kiss a random guy you'll regret it in the future you'll want to find the right guy. and its ok if you said no because you dont want to kiss a guy you dont like! just wait and you'll be happy
i hope i helped you! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-21 21:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right one, obviously you are being spared by not going through a bunch of jerks BEFORE you find the right one, and become a loser yourself..you are NOT a loser, just pray that you are in the right place at the right time, find interests that keep you healthy, men like women who have things going for them , that makes you appealing, boost your esteem and things will turn around..consider yourself lucky! Be selective and set your standards high...stop looking and waiting and it will come to you at the right time..you'll see! I wish you the best :))))
2006-09-21 21:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Snake happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a bad thing ,your girlfriends are being hurt and used while you will be in a more mature space for that special man ,be happy and healthy and not desperate ,do your own thing and enjoy your life, that is really attractive ,work on making the best of your self and love will come and be better for the wait.
2006-09-21 21:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop saying you are a loser. second just wait when the time is right. it's will come ok. dont rush thing. you are still young. enjoy life and dont go kissing just any guys. you dont know where there mouth been. so good luck and i hope this help.
2006-09-21 21:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Melda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like seventeen is the end of days. You have a lot of time. Don't sell yourself short Wait till the right thing comes along. It will happen when your not looking so hard. Your young. Enjoy that.
2006-09-21 21:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by likeitis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry...its not a big deal. you dont have to feel like a looser because of that. first kiss is something special. especially for girls. its a one time oppurtunity. once you had a bad first kiss you will regret it for the rest of your life.
your still young. so dont go around and rush to it. take your time with your bf and when the special time comes you will know it and ti will be unfourgatable
2006-09-21 21:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Andri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't push getting a first kiss. It's a magical thing that cannot be rushed. My friend was 20 before she got her first kiss, and she will tell you that it's worth the wait. Just be patient, and don't rush things.
2006-09-21 21:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by an_immortal_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there--done that!
It seems the more you worry and try to find love--the harder and more elusive it is!
I actually gave up looking and about 3-4 months later fell madly in love with then Mrs!! Take your time--every pot has a lid!
2006-09-21 21:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋