ok.....i am 14....and i havent had a boyfriend yet. all my friends have had boyfriends but not me.... ok i wear nice makeupp....popular clothes.....i am pretty good looking....y dont they like me...the guy i like doesnt even notice me. i was a geek untill 6th grade and now im in 8th. how can i get the guys to see me? and y dont they? and guys what in a girl turns u on?
2006-09-21 14:00:09 · 15 answers · asked by Yahoo Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well trust me on this for every girl you see there are about 20 guys! CA is infested with them and the thing is dont worry about it!!
2006-09-21 14:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your horses! relax and enjoy your ride! you should enjoy your life girl! boys at your age aren't that cool, trust me! (i have been a 14 yo boy 9 years ago!)
don't be so desperate and eager! you are only 14 and believe me you don't want to have the problems created by having a BF.
i am 23 now and still single, never been kissed, never had a real relationship b4, some of my schoolmates had married but i'm still a ok with it.
i know the peer pressure is quite strong for you and even for me, BUT i managed to clear up my mind and reminding myself that love will come when it's the time, i have to take my own time, don't rush love,
BTW, i'm sure 99.9% your friends are experiencing puppy love. so, don't feel that you are being left out. when the time is right, you will get what you want.
later on, in your life, you will realise guys don't really dig chicks just for their appearances! maybe for your age, boys still dig chicks just for their appearances but that just plain puppy love.
just relax and enjoy your ride! good luck!
2006-09-21 15:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety! Do you really need a guy to justify your worth? I answered a similar question the other day and i'll tell you what i told her....
Be proud your not one of your typical friends. Your the one that dosnt have the stress's of a relationship, you can do whatever, whenever. Your only 14! You have plenty of time to worry about this, but at the moment just enjoy being young without the hassles of boys and there crap! Theyre not worth it darling!!
2006-09-21 14:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright lets c first i am in 9th grade just went to highschool this year and i have had a few gf not alot but a few now when i was in 8th grade my gf asked me out and i went for it so here is my advice. Usally guys hate girls that they see with alot of guys unless they are the one going out with those girls and most guys call them sl*t and usally popular clothes do not make you look nicer now when i was in 8th grade last year and i thought the girls with the revalling clothes and all were sl*ts and i did not really like them even thought i kindda wore baggy clothes now all guys think the same thing about girls and they want the same stuff i think you know wat i mean if you want a bf show interest and do not care wat other pepole think as i use to care then i forget about it and it worked
2006-09-21 14:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a nerd, snobbish, temperamental, unsocialable, overly protective, uncompromising, straight home after school... person? If you are, you got to change and give the guys a different opinion about you.
First impression is a turn on point for guys like beauty and physique. Next comes vocal, body expression and friendliness.
2006-09-21 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok don't worry it took me til 7th grade to get my first bf. and don't worry Highschool is full of HOTTIES and you are sure to get a bf there! ok and maybe you should try if you haven't already to ask some of them out. Good Luck!!! oh also i have noticed that girls who wear "too much" make up aren't so good looking in guys' eyes... so just think of how much you got on if it aint't hat much then don't worry. but its not you. ok don't get low self esteem just cuz you can not get a bf. guys like confidence. and you can live w/out a bf. you may want one. but doesn't mean you NEED one. trust me i haven't had one in a while and i reallllllllllllllly want one but i know i don't NEED one in order to survive it'll be ok. and you never know what is in store for ya or who is crushing on you. Good Luck!♥
2006-09-21 14:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 your not having a problem with boys they are the problem. boys at that age really don't think about liking girls for the reasons that the girl likes the boy. so just sit back and wait for the right boy to come along don't worry he will.
2006-09-21 14:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popularity wont attract a guy....its confiednce and personality...dont act desperate because guys will think your weird. just act yourself and you'll be happy if they dont ask you out its their problem i bet there missing out on a great person. dont worry your young (like me lol) enjoy your life dont pressure yourself about that.i have a boyfriend and i didnt get him by popularity i found him by personality. LIVE LIFE BE HAPPY everything will turn out great!
2006-09-21 14:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the biggest mistake you're making is rushing it. you're only 14, so the best thing to do is just chill, and when it's ready to happen, it will. but as long as you're anticipating it, it either won't happen, or it won't be all you thought it was hyped up to be. so just r-e-l-a-x and have fun being a girl!
2006-09-21 14:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, im a boy in 8th grade. i like this girl not cause she wears make-up or popular clothes, actually, shes not even that popular and i am. i like her cause shes funny. she likes me too, but we arent going out. if it was someone worth going out with, see if he notices you without make-up or popular clothes, be yourself. i would never go out with a girl who pretends to be somethings shes not and who tris to fit in. i like the ones that be themeselves, and so should any boy worth going out with...
2006-09-21 14:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by someone s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋