My brother jjust told me that he likes to wear bras? He said he used to wear mine and my mothers but now he wants his own? What should I do? Should i tell my mom? He wants me to take him shopping I think. He's 16 and i am 21 what should i do?
2006-09-21 13:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by John W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is old enough to know what he wants. I think it is great that he trusts you enough to confide in you. Help him any way he needs and be a supportive sister.
2006-09-21 13:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not betray your brother's trust in you. There are other ways to let him down gently if you feel he is moving in the wrong direction. Remember he is sixteen and old enough now to know what he wants or likes. This does not have to become a major production with scenes and drama and applause. It can be one person helping another be who he really is, even if, down the line, he decides maybe bras aren't really what he had in mind in the first place. Be nice to him, and he will get his bearings much quicker. Believe me, there are other choices he could be bringing to your attention that would freeze you to the spot you are standing upon, and turn your hair snow white. So be a good sister and be grateful he has enough trust and faith in you to tell you his real feelings. How many men are comfortable doing that? Okay. Good luck with this one, and sent to you both with two big hugs and good energies from Chris in South Portland, Maine, U.S.A. (I am 63 years old.)
2006-09-21 21:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support him. He's your brother.
Talk to him about telling your mom. Not a bunch of people that don't know you or your brother. It'll only make your relationship with him stronger. And it's important for families to support each other.
2006-09-21 21:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him : You are a BOY, boys do not wear a freakin BRAS, and keep saying it over and over again,, and then tell him, men are happier by nature than women, because they do not need to wear BRAs... !!! so tequnically, he is happier than you are !!
just tell him that..
if he refused, take him shopping and buy him a bra
and tell his friends that he is wearing bra, let them laugh a little, he will by then, learn a very valuable lesson, maybe the hard way..but it's a lesson for a life time.
:)
2006-09-21 21:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anna S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're brother really trust you if he tells you such a sensitive thing. i would not betray his trust he is how he is and you can not change that, you just have to accept that.
if you try to change him than the trust is broken and if he change because of you than he will never be happy with himself.
so just go shopping with him
2006-09-22 11:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only buy him a bra if he's fat and has man ****
2006-09-21 20:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by ĢηøMΞ ¤ GứҰ ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, IT MAY BE A FETISH WITH HIM BUT HE COULD START , CROSS-DRESSING , WHAT DO YOU THINK?
2006-09-21 21:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋