If a girl asks if your are a virgin, what is the appropriate answer? I'm afraid that if I say yes, she will think I'm not experienced in bed, but if I say no, she will be offended that she is not my first and break up with me. I'm not a virgin and I want to tell the truth, but is it in my best intrest to just lie?
2006-09-21 13:46:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FlaChic, reread the question!!!
2006-09-21 14:01:26 · update #1
Don't be afraid. There is a simple way to handle this. Unless you have a wild germ or something that's contagious, this info is nobody's business. Don't lie, but don't answer that question. Just let her know you don't feel this is an issue and you think you two should just enjoy the relationship. If she's insecure, she might try and trap you into answering by getting mad at you. Let her know that it's still something that you don't discuss and remain firm. There is no reason why anyone needs to know this information unless a health problem exists or you are taking a physical or something. If she can't respect that then you have a problem you might need to get rid of.
2006-09-21 14:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. If she is considering having sex with you then she should understand. As long as you arent going out and doing everyone you can. It shouldnt be a problem if you tell the truth. Besides, a lie like that always seems to come back and bite you in the @$$
2006-09-21 20:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The appropriate answer is the whole truth. Lying will get you into a bigger mess than being a virgin, trust me.
2006-09-21 20:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions about sexuality and virginity should always be answered honestly. If you lie and she finds out, it won't be good.
2006-09-21 20:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case it would probably pay you to tell her the truth. If she finds out later and you didn't tell her then she would be more apt to dump you than if you tell her the truth to start with.
2006-09-21 20:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Tell her the truth because if she can't accept the truth from you then she don't deserve you at all nor does she deserve your virginity.
2006-09-21 20:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl ,its never in your best interest to lie ,lies get found out and rune relationships ,even if you don't like her that much ,don't lie ,it makes you the creep.
2006-09-21 20:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is better to tell the truth. A girl who would reject you for this is not worth having.
2006-09-21 20:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships require honesty. You'll most likely regret it if you lie. Think of it this way: would you want her to lie to you?
2006-09-21 20:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by rockdahouse85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to be able to tell if you aren't experienced, and at your age my guess is that an affirmative answer is what they are looking for anyway.
2006-09-21 20:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋