My boyfriend said to me " You are so ****** nosey" when I asked him what he was talking about when I called his telephone. I heard him speaking with someone when I called him so I asked him what he said...he stated something about a plane crash. I said what plane crash, and that was his response.(You are so ******* nosey) I hung up the telephone on him. He really hurt me. What do you think? He doesn't think what he said was rude. (we are adults by the way...Im 27 yrs old)
2006-09-21 13:44:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it was rude. Do not allow yourself to be treated this way. Make it clear now or face a lifetime of it.
2006-09-21 13:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Robin N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some poeple might call you nosey. i depends on how you ask the questions. maybe when you asked him you sounded like you're from the FBI. there is an art to asking questions without sounding nosey.
BUT......it doesn't give anybody the right to talk to you like what your BF said. i think it was VERY rude. talk to him once again about it. if he still insists he is not rude, then you can't do anything about it. that's the way he is. you just have to get used to it.
2006-09-21 20:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be overly sensitive (or not) - don't know all the circumstances. If it had been me, I would have said, "Yes I am and you know you love it. So now tell me what's this about a plane crash??" Life is way to short to be so serious about anything - learn to laugh at yourself along with laughing with others.
2006-09-21 20:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like an adult thing
however
are you very nosey? your probably getting on his nerves
women tend to do that from time to time.
not to worry if you leave now he will find someone else that can deal with him...
Most women cant, they get hurt too easily by words
develop thicker skin if you wish to remain. Sugar coating is for people that want to be lied to. I bet he doesnt lie to you.
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2006-09-21 20:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Xae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a little rude and you were a little nosey. You guys have to figure out if thats what you want from each other.
2006-09-21 20:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gazoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he was rude maybe it was at the heat of the momment and he dint mean it like that but is was very rude. He could have said that in a much much much nicer way. You need to let him know that.
2006-09-21 20:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by babystuff6262005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was rude. It probably was a little nosy to ask him what he was talking about to someone else, but he certainly could have expressed his annoyance with you a little better than that. You followed up his rudeness with a little of your own by hanging up on him.
2006-09-21 20:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by stormywthr64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, guys are ALWAYS like that. they are less sensitive than girls, we are born that way. he probably thinks that what he said doesn't hurt you because it didn't hurt him saying it, and he probably got used to it from personal experiences. ignore a guy when he does this. but if your still mad, reaturn the favor and when he asks you something like "where have you been?" reply "you are so ******* nosy!" like he did to you. let's see how he feels after this. and i am saying this in a goodway, not a bad way. goodluck!: )
2006-09-21 20:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's was pretty disrespectful and imature. He should not have answered like that. He could have chosen a different way to answer.
2006-09-21 20:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by 90 civic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didnt have to used that f word,that wasnt nice,but it could have been the second time you were noisey in a diffrent way,but you were noisey,we give each other a little space, to be what we want to be, and respect the other space.should be that way,to live happy,
2006-09-21 20:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋