okay well...theres this boy whos 15...and iam 14...i started talking to him on myspace accidently and found out that he goes to the same school as me...hes in 10th iam in 9th...and i have been talking to him for like 2 months through myspace and AIM...and hes soo nice and funny and i think hes great...iam really shy...and i have seen him in school and not said anything but the other day he saw me and thought i looked familiar i guess cuz my myspace pics and so now he knows who iam as of yesterday...we have never talked in person yet...i want to though...iam not scared to anymore...but what i really want to know is if he likes me...like he seems like it a LIL bit...like i got online last night and he was away and he came back from away like 10 secs after i got on and IMed me...i know thats nothing but yeah...i just dont know what to do...i really want him to like me...i like him more than anyone else ive ever liked...i want to know what i can do to get to know him better and stuff...
2006-09-21 13:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by devon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are both too shy. It has to do with being young, and nothing else. Some people get more confidence sooner than others. Go ahead and take a little initiative. Keep it light and simple, you've both already invested a little time and energy and are friends. Next time you talk to him on im, just ask him to meet you at school, and maybe eat lunch together, if you have the same lunch schedule, or maybe have a soda or something in real life.
The shyness will go away in time. There is no reason for either of you to be nervous about talking to each other in real life.
Good luck
2006-09-29 13:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy too . You won't ever get anything in life if you are standing in the corner somewhere afraid to talk to people .
The worst that can happen is that he just want to be friends for now .
Go for it girl !!!
2006-09-21 22:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will make the move, like smoke before fire in a checkers game. Also so love is like a game, he'll make the move, if he dont, tough break kiddo
2006-09-24 16:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by starprosecutor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been talking that much online then online ask him if he wants to sit togather at lunch or ask if he ca help you with a subject like math boys always seem to like helping girls study and it is an easy way to get him alone and see where it goes if your not ready to ask about lunch.
2006-09-21 20:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋