There's this guy named Andrew, and he says he likes me, but den my friend told me he wuz touching her *** and by bff told me he wuz holding her. So he says none of it is true. And this girl I really hate has even said she's going out w/ him yet he tells me she's lying. Should I still go out w/ him? Should I jus be friends w/ him? What should I do?
2006-09-21 13:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is my bf.
2006-09-22 13:30:09 · update #1
Just be friends with him. He sounds like a player!
2006-09-21 13:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, either he is lying or else the girls are. I can not tell you what is happening because I don't know any of your friends (at least I don't think I do). You need to think about what each persons incentives would be for lying. Are the girls jealous? Is there any reason they wouldn't want you to be with this guy? Have you seen the guy doing anything peculiar? Does he disappear for long periods of time? Also, did the girls tell you when these things happened? Maybe you should probe them for details.
2006-09-21 20:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not mentioned whether he is your bf. Sounds more like he is just a friend who expressed his liking for you only. So, why bother to find out more? Whether he has touched he *** or whether she claims she is going out with him doesn't concerns you.
However, you must be open to what others tell you as there are lots of uncertainties or lies that some people just play on others because they don't like someone or just want to lay on you and forget about you later.
2006-09-21 20:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another boy to hang around. Focus your total attention toward them. If Andrew really likes you and wants to be with you then he will start to come around you and want to hang out with you. If not he is not really interested and you know that all the rumors are true. Who knows, the new boy you hang around might be your next boyfriend.
2006-09-21 20:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....find out who's lying and who's telling the truth. It seems like this guy-Andrew is a jerk. He doesnt want a relashonship.....i spelled that wrong. ops. FInd out more about him before u think about anything else........good luck!
2006-09-21 20:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can handle all the lies then go for it. If you are smart, you wouldn't even think to get involve.
He wants to screw vulnerable women cuz he can't go out with smart ones.
Don't be one of them.
2006-09-21 20:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should trust your friends and not the girl that hates you if your friends say hes doing things to them and with them they are telling you the truth
2006-09-21 20:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Derrick H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to find out a little more before you decide to go out with him.
2006-09-21 20:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be friends with him first that way you could get inside his head.
2006-09-21 20:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even bother with him.....
He seems to only be trying to get some ***....
2006-09-21 20:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by AJAY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋