ok well i asked this really cute guy out but he keeps sayin maybe but then today i found out that he asked this one other girl out before i aked him so i dont know what to do!
2006-09-21 13:24:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe is'nt an answer....it's just an exuse people use......i don't think he wanted to go out with you..don't worry for now....perhaps he might ask you out when he is done with the other girl.......
2006-09-21 13:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry it happened to you, but that happens to both sexes all the time. As a teenage guy, I'd say that right now it'd probably be best to wait (if you like the guy enough) until his eyes are off her. The fact that he keeps saying maybe means that he cares for you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings, and may be willing to go out with you in the long run. However, his main priority right now is that other girl. My advice is to wait it out and not do anything like get him to cheat with you or try to break them up ... it will just create enemies and your relationship won't be that strong. I know it's rough, but this situation has actually happened to me before (just switching guys and girls of course lol) and believe me, it's too often that you ask a second too late.
2006-09-21 20:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Precision 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emily,
Poor dear have you not figured out guys yet? This is not to diss the guys ok there are some really great guys out there but some are just players. If you asked this guy out and he said maybe then you find out that he asked out another girl sadly enough he has no interest because if he did he would have accepted your offer of a date. Dear girl he is not the only one in the sea. I would suggest that you let the man come to you. If at first you dont succeed try, try again but let them find you. I would suggest just letting go and saying to hell with it when you adopt this kind of attitude the guys will come to you. Let your inner spirit shine out you will attract guys more than worrying about old homeboy asking out other girls. He might not be the one for you ok. It has to be a mutual thing. I have to commend you for having the guts to ask him out at least you did and it also shows that you have confidence about yourself. I would ignore this guy and get on with my life when he sees that you are not worried about what he does believe me if he is interested he will come around. Some guys dont like girls that are pushy not saying that you are im just saying throw out some feminine provacative inner spirit and you will see what comes your way. Tell him next time you see him hey its ok because baby i have other things to do on my list and i have other fish to fry smile sweetly at him then walk away then you will leave him wondering what the hell? You have to put on an air of mystery and make him wonder what you are about ok...
2006-09-21 20:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by firey_spirit_66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything about it just simplly let it go but if you really like him that much then ask him out again, and just tell him how you feel. Then see what happens after that, thats what i did to a guy i love now his name is Daniel and he is such my heart he is like my world but we are broken up and now i am in the same situation i am. It will work out fine.
2006-09-21 20:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know just dont feel like there is something wrong with you , because boys are like that , they want a bad girl instead of a good one..if he asked this other girl out then means that she might do something like sleep with him or other things that he knows you might not do ..so i send you this poem so you can always remember this ...and forget about him and find you another good guy ...good luck and remember you are the good apple
Girls are like apple
on trees. The best ones
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-are afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong w/ them when in
- reality they're amazing. They just--
- --have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top--------
-------------of the tree.---------
2006-09-21 20:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.......what do u do? u tell me. So he asked a girl out before u asked him out? i think that means that he isn't really interested in u but doesn't wanna hurt ur feelings..... He must care about u but doesn't see u in that way. Well......good luck. Talk to him and tell him that if he doesn't like u then nvm. forget the date and just stay friends
2006-09-21 20:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He keeps telling you maybe to either keep you waiting to see if the other works out or he is doing it to keep from hurting your feelings. My guess,,, He is keeping you hanging on just in case he needs a date.
2006-09-21 20:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by waterloorr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just my personal opinion but I think it is kind of trashy for the girl to make the first move--especially if you did it twice. move on from this guy and next time let a guy ask you out it is just more ladylike and proper.
2006-09-21 20:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by keepingthefaith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and start looking somewhere else. There are a lot of other guys out ther who would want to be with you.
2006-09-21 20:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked her out before you asked him then don't worry about it he maybe just didn't know you were interested in him before you asked him out and needs time to think about it so just wait and see
2006-09-21 20:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Derrick H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋