Ok, so I naturally don't really care whether a guy likes me or not (Unless I like him... lol) But a lot of my friends think that I do it on purpose. People tell me that guys just give up after a while, but when I start going out with them, it's pretty serious. We last a long time, and enjoy being together. But it's been so long since I've had a boyfriend... what should I do?
2006-09-21 13:19:18 · 5 answers · asked by Spritey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm with you.
The thing to do is keep being you. Don't drop your standards because you are lonesome. I understand you perfectly. Sometimes I will go months with no new boyfriend because I'm not interested in the ones that are asking me out. But, in the long run, you are better off. If you date a guy you aren't really interested in just because you are lonesome, you will eventually be unhappy and so will he.
The thing to do is get out so more guys can meet you. You have to increase your visibility in circles where men you would like will be. Then, you'll have more options and sooner or later, one will come along that you DO LIKE.
It's not easy. But this is what you have to do.
2006-09-21 13:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Instant Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot to be said for virtues and not being the one that goes home with every guy she dates . You need to try being flirtatious and in control play with the guys but let them know that you are in control of the situation. there is no reason to let them into your life if you are not really after them so . Id say play hard to get but don't be afraid to play with them a little .
2006-09-21 20:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel like doing! Just be ready with the consequences. At the long run, you'll get the hand of things, know what you really want, and do what you should have always did.
2006-09-21 20:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get.. YOu will know when it is right. Guys seem to like it when you play hard to get.
2006-09-21 20:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Talena E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play both i mean i know it sounds hard. but i mean like flirt or whatever adn then kinda play hard to get you konw what i mean.
Hope all goes well.
2006-09-21 20:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋