A co-worker recently had a baby and I went to go visit. I was chatting with her and her husband and the baby got hungry so she began to breastfeed, which was cool. After the baby got enuf, she put the baby down for a nap and HER HUSBAND BEGAN TO NURSE!!! RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!! I asked what the f*uck was going on and she played it off like "he always does this". I made an excuse and left but that really bothers me. Is that some kind of weird fetish? I mean I've heard of men getting jealous during breastfeedings but not to this extreme. They also have a 4 yr old that walked in, but it didn't seem to bother him. I think its child abuse for him to see that and want to tell the authorties. What do you guys think?
2006-09-21 13:18:17 · 23 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I totally agree, I would tell the authorities so at least it's in the records if anything else should happen...I would also confront your co-worker. Tell her that what she and her husband did was completely inappropriate to do in front of you and/ or the child. Tell her that therapy might be useful; if not for them, than at least for their child. Tell her how completely uncomfortable that made you...explain to see a mother feed her child is one thing...but to see her husband jump on her, could be considered soft porn and you were surprised that she and her husband were so inconsiderate.
2006-09-21 13:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sillira 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Some men have been known to use an apparatice that they can hang around their neck that allows them to actually "nurse" their baby milk supplied through a tube that flows to their nipples. I can understand your shock at seeing this. It is quite unusual. I don't know that I would call it abuse; it is a personal choice of their family. However, if it is something that makes you uncomfortable, which it obviously does; I would talk to my friend about it and find out why she thinks this is o.k. and what benefits they feel the baby is getting from this, especially if the baby had already been satiated. Maybe he should consider other methods of bonding that are more socially acceptable in the presence of guests.
2006-09-21 13:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by L A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
pathetic...the toddler desires the milk better than a grown guy. until the toddler refuses to drink any of it. then decide for it. As for Corvette, there have been situations the place adult males have breastfed infants. whilst hormones are out of whack to illustrate. in specific situations they're going to have like a sympathy being pregnant the place the get the tummy milk and pains. in the time of situations of famine adult males will produce milk. study to do somewhat analyze there Corve :)
2016-10-17 10:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the craziest thing that i have ever heard!!!! what the he** is wrong with them? that is gross!!! i would report it that is not normal at all. why would he want to do that!!? that is really creepy! wow i can not believe that. that has to be some kind of child abuse. i would definately find someone to tell. is he some kind of perv or child molester!!!? report it immedialtely! if he is a child molester he could be doing more than what you seen to the baby and/or the 4 year old. that is not something that i would want my 4year old to see! the 4 year old amy even try to do it.
2006-09-21 14:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by lem 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is perfectly normal for a man to breastfeed as long as he is wearing one of those bra milk thingys...There is no reason to get all worked up over that it helps out with the wife too because she might need rest or something and the husband is there to feed the baby... you should ask them more about it if you feel so uncomfortable...
2006-09-21 13:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by brenpren07 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
that is very strange. i would tell authorties, that is just not normal, and in front of the 4 year old.
2006-09-21 13:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by lapalma 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
OK NOW I DONT HAVE A PBLM WITH THE MAN BREAST FEEDING ALOT OF MEN DO IT WHEN I HAD MY CHILD EVEN BEFORE I HAD MY CHILD MY MAN WOULDNT LEAVE MY BREAST ALONE....MY ISSUE IS THAT FACT THEY HE DID IT IN FRONT OF YOU . SEEMS LIKE HE WAS GOING FOR THE SHOCK AND AWE EFFECT ........ AND FOR HER TO MAKE A EXCUSE FOR HIM WAS JUST REALLY CRAZY FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT WAS JUST RUDE TO DO IN FRONT OF COMPANY POINT BLANK( WOULD HE HAVE DONE SUCH A THING IN FRONT OF HER PARENTS? I THINK NOTTTTTT) IF IT WAS MY HUSBAND B/F ETC AND HE DID THAT IN FRONT OF SOMEONE I WOULD SLAP FIYAAA OUT OF HIM ..... THAT SHOULD STAY BEHIND CLOSED DOOR IN THEIR BEDROOM
2006-09-21 13:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by lil m@m@ 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOW.....I don't think that's a reportable issue to be honest. But it is VERY weird. It's completely bizzarre and I honestly don't know what to tell you. Ask your co-worker about it. Just be straight up about it.
2006-09-21 13:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Snuz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If anyone other than the baby drinks from the boob then it's a sex act, and should not be done in public.
2006-09-21 13:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Duffman 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yeah, i would say that there is something not quiet right about that guy. it's not like the baby gets anything out of it. I don't know why he would even bother.
2006-09-21 13:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋