ok...i started talkin to this guy that came to our skool this year...well i found his myspace and i started talkin to him well. then he started callin me..then a couple of days after that he asked me to homecoming...then he finally asked me out we have been goin out for 4 days...well he didnt call me today or yeterday...and he hasnt rote me a message back does he still like me...or he is jus shy wat should i do
2006-09-21 13:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by lil'mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 10:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont jump the gun ok. You never know he might be busy. dont keep writing him messages cause then he will think you are clingy, on his myspace write him a simple message like," hey just thought I'd drop you a line and say hey." and leave it at that, if you don't hear from him in three days, then he probably doesn't want to see you anymore. always give them a three day grace period. after that then just say goodbye. hope i could help..
2006-09-21 20:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by wendy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably shy or he's just not that social of a person. A lot of guys don't want to get into a relationship where they're expected to talk all the time. I know when my girlfriend calls I just don't answer the phone because it'll save me a lot of boredom. He probably still likes you though.
2006-09-21 20:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fish Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just call him? i mean, you dont have to call him 3 times a day or anything like that. but guys don't want to make ALL the effort ALL the time. i mean, he may be thinking the same thing. he may be saying the same thing " i dont get it. i call this girl all the time, and she never calls me. she must not like me" if you like the guy, call him once in a while. it goes both ways.
2006-09-21 20:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then maybe you should call...Its not his job to only call you have to call also..
He might be thinking the same thing
And hun keep this in mind
you dont have to expect a call EVERYDAY when u first just start going out i mean he has a life..dont you?
2006-09-21 20:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...if you mean a message on myspace check if it was read and if it was maybe you should just give him a call and see how things are with him and stuff...i dont really know...but thats what i would do...good luck =)
2006-09-21 20:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by devon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call and ask him ,,,don't wait on anybody....you are too young to be waitnig for someone that can't make up his mind,,,good luck
2006-09-21 20:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been two days. That is normal for a guy, relax, give it time.
2006-09-21 20:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by soulmatedp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe since yall are already together
he feels he doesn't need to call you everyday.
2006-09-21 20:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by *GoldenGirl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy. You take iniciative (sp?) and ask him out instead of waiting for him.
2006-09-21 20:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by Garrett F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋